Am I in the wrong here???

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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42510 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@lilymarie23:  I think you had a right to be mad at the time, and I think you handled her actions very well.

Do I think you have a right to still be mad? No.

I would hope you have something better to occupy your time with as 3 months have passed since the wedding. The only one you are hurting by harboring this anger is yourself.

Post # 5
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42510 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@lilymarie23:  Most of us have had to move on from at least one relationship in our lives. It is often the healthy choice.

Good luck with your wedding planning.

 

Post # 6
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1500 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@lilymarie23:  One amazing thing I learned in life is simply ignoring and cutting out the people who hurt me. You don’t owe them anything girl. Stop telling her about your wedding, leave her out of it, she doesn’t deserve to be there. You have every right to be hurt, but for your own mental health’s sake, you’ll fare better in the long run without her. She’s a toxic friend. It sounds like she has her own anger management issues. I would run, farrr, farrrrrrrrrrr away.

Post # 7
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7282 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@melonseeds:  +1 

I dont care that shes famiy she crossed numerous lines. But it seems to me your have played doormat too long. Maybe you would feel better to call her out on her bullshit than to remain silent. Thats what I would call her out and cut her off.

Post # 8
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1441 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@lilymarie23:  Why are you arguing with your cousin about costs for your wedding?  Why are you discussing the cost of your wedding with anyone at all?

Post # 9
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1235 posts
Bumble bee

@melonseeds:  +100000000000!

I agree. You just need to ignore the toxic people in your life.. They will continue to bring you down, and you don’t need that in your life. 

Post # 10
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307 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

You handled all of that with such grace and finesse – you really haven’t said anything about any of it to anyone yet and she did it all to upset you. She will continue to be a pain in the ass until you DO blow your stack because that’s what she’s wanted to do all along. Continuing to ignore her and her antics will drive her INSANE! Have at it. Don’t let her anywhere near your wedding or the planning. Continue to act like you didn’t notice what a bitch she was.

Post # 12
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7282 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@lilymarie23:  Good for you. fuck her. And now that you have said your peace, there is nothing more to argue. Trust me she will try desperately to continue to get under your skin, dont give her the satisfaction.

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