(Closed) am I just second guessing?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3639 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

It bothers you because you are human. If a random person on the street calls you fat, even if you are a slender person – it can still haunt you. You know that logically this person doesn’t know you and there is probably something wrong on their end if they are randomly insulting people on the street, but you still can’t shake it. 

Some girls are just crazy! Try not to think about it and it will get less and less bothersome. Be sure to block her on Facebook so that she doesn’t cause trouble again. 

You probably went through a lot of emotions when she messaged you, doubt, hurt, jealously, mistrust, anger… It takes a while to get all of that. Give yourself time. 

Post # 4
923 posts
Busy bee

Tickles well said. We are all human and this kind of comment would get to anybody. This girl has a serious problem, and it’s a shame that people like that have to reach out and try to hurt others. Unfortunatly you’re her most recent victim. But in the end you know what’s right and whats true. This girl doesn’t matter. Give yourself some time and you’ll look back to this and just blow it off thinking about how crazy she it, not wondering if anything she says is true.

Post # 5
602 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m sorry that this has happened to you. How awful! It sounds like she’s insane. I know it’s hard, but you should try to shrug it off.

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