(Closed) Am I or is my sister being unreasonable?

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

She’s wrong.

Post # 4
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5428 posts
Bee Keeper

She is being unreasonable, he was invited. End of story.

Post # 5
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5969 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

There’s always one of these in every family….luckily my brain has started to produce a chemical that blocks out the sound of her voice…it’s awesome!

Post # 6
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2697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Yeah thats all her.

 

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

What? I don’t see how she even decided to complain about this… Also, this: “this wedding isn’t a big deal and I’m making it one by bringing him” doesn’t make any sense as a grievance. Just ignore her. How old is she? 

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

She’s being a butt. 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Sounds like she’s just jeolous of your relationship and possibly the fact that she doesn’t have one? If she’s single she probably doesn’t realize what its like from your point of view. Let her throw her hissy fit, she’s going to have to get over it and mature a bit.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Eff her.  She sounds 12.

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Your sister is being unreasonable. She is making it about her and taking away from the joy of it, which is too bad. I would say don’t get involved in fights with her etc.. its attention she doesnt deserve to warrant such a non issue. He is coming, final decision and if she feels so upset, she can hang out with your parents or bring her own date (I’m assuming). Best of luck! 🙂

Post # 13
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5969 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@Quackadoo:  Yeah…I don’t know how…and I don’t get why parents do that…but there’s four of us, so I get it if they just wanted her to shut up…she’s the one who looks like an ass, not me

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I think you are more than fine in bringing your boyfriend, but you might want to step bcak and think about why she might really be saying those things (even if it is in a childish way). She probably feels like her relationship with you is changing. I know there was defiantely an adjustment time for my family, even though they loved DH from the start and always welcomed him, but it does change things. I know my sisters felt kind of weird when we would be at family functions knowing that we would usually be hanging out in our small family and then had to get use to DH being there all the time, especially if they weren’t involved in a relationship.

At some point she will need to get over it. I know that when we had family functions coming up I would try to get time before hand to talk with my sisters, just girl time without DH.

 

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