Am I Overthinking This?

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
138 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

You MAY be overthinking it a little. But it is really nice to have in laws that love you and are excited for that part to come. My SO’s grandmother told me over a year ago “We’re pushing for you!” in reference to a proposal. Still hasn’t happened. So just take comfort in the fact that he’s talked to them about how awesome you are and try not to let all the little comments get to you. Its definitely on his mind if his family is mentioning things like that Smile 


Post # 4
686 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Don’t read too much into it until he’s actually asking you. It sounds like it’s going to hapen, but who knows when, just enjoy your time together now and wait for it to happen 🙂

Post # 5
6448 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wouldn’t read too much into that but it’s awesome that his parents like you so much!!

Post # 6
2167 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Ummmmm, doesn’t sound too of a hint to me. I think you may be over thinking a bit but who knows? Hoping for the best for you!!!!

Post # 7
1157 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@MrsHalpert:  Yes… you are overthinking it there.

Last year, my SO’s grandma told me that she loved me, so I casually (although I thought that it was a lil awkward) told her that I loved her too. Then she said “No. I love YOU!” I laughed nervously then left.

My SO eventually explained: she hated ALL of his previous girlfriends and was trying to tell me that I was the one she loved.

I think that your FMIL is sweet!

Post # 8
212 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I think you’re over thinking it BUT everyone knows that it’s coming and that it’s coming soon! They can all smell it in the air! And obviously there will be celebrations!

Post # 9
1460 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

I think she was just letting you know that when it does happen she’ll be happy to organise somethings for you, rather than she knows it’s coming some :3

Good luck though! It’s really nice they like you so much 😀

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