Post # 1
So, I was talking to my boyfriend’s mom (who LOVES me and loves that we’re together) today about the wedding shower I’m throwing for my best friend. She said, “you’re always doing these wonderful showers/parties for people. hopefully everyone remembers when it’s your turn!” I told her that it wouldn’t matter, because when it’s my turn, that will mean that I get to marry the most amazing guy I have ever met (and that’s the truth). She thought that was adorable, but goes, “well, just so you know–we’re thrilled your the one he’s going to marry, and there WILL be parties.”
Of course my immediate reaction after, awww!, was WHAT DO YOU KNOW WOMAN!? Lol. Am I overthinking things? She has, in the past, had me try on her rings and BF is always rubbing my ring finger when we hold hands. His dad constantly asks us when we’re going to take the next step, and my family is on that same level of excited. So, do his mom’s words sound hint-y, or am I just being anxious?
Post # 3
You MAY be overthinking it a little. But it is really nice to have in laws that love you and are excited for that part to come. My SO’s grandmother told me over a year ago “We’re pushing for you!” in reference to a proposal. Still hasn’t happened. So just take comfort in the fact that he’s talked to them about how awesome you are and try not to let all the little comments get to you. Its definitely on his mind if his family is mentioning things like that
Post # 4
Don’t read too much into it until he’s actually asking you. It sounds like it’s going to hapen, but who knows when, just enjoy your time together now and wait for it to happen 🙂
Post # 5
I wouldn’t read too much into that but it’s awesome that his parents like you so much!!
Post # 6
Ummmmm, doesn’t sound too of a hint to me. I think you may be over thinking a bit but who knows? Hoping for the best for you!!!!
Post # 7
@MrsHalpert: Yes… you are overthinking it there.
Last year, my SO’s grandma told me that she loved me, so I casually (although I thought that it was a lil awkward) told her that I loved her too. Then she said “No. I love YOU!” I laughed nervously then left.
My SO eventually explained: she hated ALL of his previous girlfriends and was trying to tell me that I was the one she loved.
I think that your FMIL is sweet!
Post # 8
I think you’re over thinking it BUT everyone knows that it’s coming and that it’s coming soon! They can all smell it in the air! And obviously there will be celebrations!
Post # 9
- Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo
I think she was just letting you know that when it does happen she’ll be happy to organise somethings for you, rather than she knows it’s coming some :3
Good luck though! It’s really nice they like you so much 😀
Post # 10
I figured it might have been a tad bit confident of me to think something was up; it does feel great to know that not only do we know that we’re the ones for each other, but our families do too! Thanks for listening to my crazy, y’all 🙂