Am I panicking over nothing? Really would appreciate some advice

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@incognitobumblebee:  I really doubt he still has those pictures after all this time. If he did, there’s no point in using them. Even if he is a tool, humiliating you wouldn’t really benefit him in any way at this point. 

Post # 4
3202 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

I would try not to worry about it. My ex had, like, dozens of nudie pictures of me, so don’t worry, you certainly didn’t do some crazy thing that no one in the world has done. He doesn’t have anything to gain by humiliating you–he’s the one who would look the fool anyway, not you.


Post # 5
1343 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@incognitobumblebee:  I can’t imagine after all of this time he’d still have them/use them! I suppose it’s still a risk at any time though…Especially being in the public eye of any form.

Yet, it’s a risk you will have to take. You cannot live your life in fear that the pictures you sent to someone you loved will end up in the public eye. 

If he does attempt to slut shame you, stay strong and hire a good lawyer. 

I really hope this works out well for you! Congrats on the engagement!

Post # 5
265 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

incognitobumblebee:  Deny it and say it is photoshopped!!! I mean in this age it is so easy to do( edit and print and they will look legit! Just be ready to deny it – that’s what i would do. Especially if break up was ugly . If he is capable of revealing something like that he is capable of faking them too. :o)


PS Oh uh! Is this thread 5 month old? LOL I am so lost…

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 3 months ago by  AnnaVictoria.
Post # 6
3637 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

If worst comes to absolute worst, it REALLY won’t be that bad. Everyone will know that they are old, old photos from a not, so smart, time in your life and that obviously a vindictive person is responsible. 

And then when you are in the nursing home you can tell this story and laugh about your wild days.


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