Am I reading too much into the "signs?"

posted 2 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
50 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

Nope, it doesn’t sound like you’re reading too much into it! It could happen! He sounds like such a lovely guy.

Hope for the best but expect the worst (no proposal). That way you don’t get your hopes up too much, and just enjoy spending time with your lovely boyfriend. Congratulations for whenever it happens xx

Post # 3
136 posts
Blushing bee

Sounds like it’s a posibility. If not at Disney then some other time soon. 

Post # 4
2577 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Hi, my own advice (so much easier to give to someone else than to follow myself!) is to try to focus on your Disney trip solely as a great trip with an awesome boyfriend- picture the warm weather, the fun things you’ll do, romantic nights etc. This way you can be happy and relaxed and focus on the vacation itself. Then, if he does propose, you will be delighted- but if he doesn’t propose, perhaps it will be easier to be secretly disappointed without allowing your disappointment to spoil your enjoyment of a wonderful holiday if you’re not overly focused on the possibility of a holiday proposal (I know, so hard!). It honestly does sound like your boyfriend is planning to propose to you, so it seems more a question of ‘when’ rather than ‘if’ 🙂 So enjoy the trip planning and bf’s cute behaviour dancing around and spoiling you, and I really do get the impression it will happen for you. Just keep in mind he might want it to be when he thinks you’re not expecting it (and you mentioned to him last Disney trip you hoped for a proposal), so if it doesn’t happen at Disney World, he may have some surprise plan up his sleeve (so be gracious if there’s no Disney surprise) fairly soon after when he thinks it will be completely unexpected. He sounds really sweet 🙂

Post # 6
6439 posts
Bee Keeper

It does sound like he’s up to a proposal soon! Although FI thinks maybe he just bought you a big tv or something to combine Christmas and your birthday. I agree with PP to enjoy the trip as though there is no proposal so you don’t get disappointed just in case. Anyway, have fun on your trip, and enjoy the holidays! 

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