- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2015
Your mother in law didn’t respect you, you either would never be with him or we (FI/H and I) would never see her again. There is a huge difference between like/tolerate and respect. The Mother-In-Law may not like you for a multitude of reasons; you wear pants or hum a lot, and in my opinion that is OK but she will respect me. She will acknowledge my presence as I hers and she would not insult me publicly or privately or I would be out the door.
I might be the only person who feels this way too, but Fiance means everything to me. I put him first before everyone else, I would die for him; if anyone were to ever disrespect him I would check it right away and cut them from my list, my mother and father included. Don’t get me wrong I would make an attempt to put aside our differences and come to an agreement with Mother-In-Law in front of FI/H, but if she would continue to disrespect me, we would go or I would.
I’m so grateful that Fiance mother and I get a long very well and I love her and I know she loves me, or I would have to put my money where my mouth is. I really just wanted to see if anyone else felt the same way.