Post # 1
Who gets incredibly mad when FH is late? ex he just played a game of hockey at 5 I am waiting for him to get home to make dinner he should have been home a half hour ago. Is it so hard to text someone and let them know you are going to be late?
Post # 3
I don’t get mad but I get worried, I start wondering if he’s hurt and work myself up. Is this a constant thing? If so you should really sit down and talk about it.
Post # 4
agreed! hes probs having a beer or something with the guys! but i need a text or i go crazy and start worrying LOL hope hes home soon!
Post # 5
I hear ya! My Fiance is playing hockey tonight and he NEVER texts! If he is more than 30 minutes late, I go to bed, assuming he is having a drink with the guys, then stay awake in bed worrying that he is in a car accident or died or something.
Post # 6
YES!!!! But somehow after the 8 millionth time of this happening (DH is late for everything, but he’s finally figured out that I’m a girl who gets hangry, so when it comes to food, don’t eff with me), he’s realized he needs to communicate better with me. That being said, now he’s a complete over communicator. I’ve created a monster. Seriously. Examples over the last few days:
– Expectos Patronus! (I was going to see Daniel Radcliffe at a tv show taping)
– Random comments on Seal and Heidi Klum’s divorce
– The Bachelor is coming to Canada
– Toronto’s mayor is going to eat another mayor. (I have no idea where he was going with that…)
– There are air raid sirens going off on our street and he can’t figure out why.
And my two personal favourites:
– Valdez, Alaska has gotten 27′ of snow this year! Fact!
– I want to start a restaurant. Harry Poutini’s. I’d sell burritos. And used furniture emporium.
Post # 7
I get mad I know he is probably having a beer the roads are terrible (its been snowing all day) then I start feeling guilty that he may have got in an accident and I am sitting here angry. All he has to do is text to avoid me getting a stomach ulcer
Post # 8
I usually don’t care if it’s under an hour. And then it’s not angry, it’s worried.
Post # 9
I’m the one who is usually late… so, no. 😉
Post # 10
@bakerella: this made me laugh 🙂
Post # 11
I agree with some of the PPs. My Fiance is late quite often but it’s not that I get mad, it’s that I get super worried!!
Post # 12
I agree that you should let someone know if you’re going to be late, it is frustrating to feel like you are not a priority!
Post # 13
I have ADD, so I’m always late although Ive gotten better in my old age. I’m apologizing for your Darling Husband, we really just don’t notice the time passing.
Post # 14
I get worried/mad. Worried when I think something might be wrong, and mad once I find out he’s OK. But of course I can’t stay mad long!
I’m an “always-15-min-early” person, though. So it annoys me when people are late/arrive juuuuust on time. Grr!
Post # 15
I get mad sometimes, because my fiance is usually late. Even when I tell him we HAVE to be out the door by a certain time, or he HAS to meet me somewhere… It’s frustrating, but I try to let it go if its not a big deal. Now if he’s late to the wedding he will get an ear full! lol
Post # 16
I’m also in the “not mad, just worried” camp, but Fiance is rarely late and always texts or calls if plans get changed.