(Closed) Am I the only one waiting but content in doing so?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@BeeLadylike:  *raises hand* You’ve summed up my waiting situation Smile Whilst I do get pangs of impatience, I am for the most part pretty content.

Post # 4
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1784 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m pretty content with waiting for the actual proposal. What’s making me crazy is waiting for someone from the English teaching program I’m on to email me back about the engagement/marriage requirements for me to be eligible for a transfer to the city my boyfriend just got transferred to. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee

@BeeLadylike:  I’m content. 🙂 I think as long as you know it’s on his mind and it’s going to happen you can stay pretty cool. I only get impatient about children. That has more to do with my age. I’m 30 and I want a baby like yesterday. 

Post # 6
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2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m antsy with excitement, but content. 🙂

Post # 7
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1716 posts
Bumble bee

I’m pretty content also. We constantly plan the wedding and for our new house. He still buys me pretty things now and then just cause. I show him ring styles I like when he mentions it. I still cook his favorite foods. Our love life is pretty great too.

We’re happy and enjoying life. I never get overly excited for a “special day” and then get sad he doesn’t propose. I’m just happy we spent a special day together.

Sometimes I don’t really understand why its hard to wait.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

That was pretty much me. In fact, the actual engagement really wasn’t a big thing for us. I just wanted to wait until we could actually start planning a wedding, and once I felt like that time was upon us, I sent him a text before class one day suggesting that we get engaged soon and his response was “That sounds like fun ^_^.”

We’re pretty non-traditional though. Honestly, it kind of blows my mind to see impatient waiting Bees, but I think I have a pretty unique perspective on marriage. I was raised by two parents who were never married but nonetheless have been together from before I was conceived until today. I guess I never saw marriage as a big priority, rather as something I’d like to do someday if it was possible. I never saw it as a prerequisite to planning a family and starting a future, so if a guy wasn’t into the idea of marriage that wouldn’t have been a dealbreaker for me.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

I’m pretty content just waiting. Of course I would like to be engaged, but I don’t bug him about it. We’re pretty open about talking about what we like and don’t like for weddings just from all of our friends’ weddings that we go to or whenever we see something on tv. I think that’s part of the reason why I don’t care about waiting because it’s clear we’re on the same page and are open about talking about it. And we’re in a LDR right now, but we should know in a few months when it will end. (Fingers crossed for July!) I think until we have a definite end point for the LDR, it would be a little silly to get engaged. And I know he has the ring, which is exciting. Apparently for some bees knowing that he has the ring but hasn’t proposed is torture, but I’m fine with it until the time is right. And I really don’t understand people who freak out when someone gets engaged on facebook.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

I’m fine waiting too. I waited for over 8 years before he told me we are getting married, and he’s getting me a ring. No kids for us, however.

My ring will be custom made but we have to wait until my SO can go back to work, which won’t be another 3 1/2 months. Waiting for THAT sucks, but then we’ll be able to afford to have my ring made.

All told I’ll be waiting another 5 months or so I’m guessing before the proposal happens. We only just recently decided on a wedding date which is also a wait away.

We’re getting married on our 10 year anniversary; July 4, 2014.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I go in and out of the waiting phases but at the moment I am content 🙂

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