(Closed) Am I too anxious?

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1408 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Holy wow. I think you need to give your fiance a break 🙂 He is a man. There is nothing that he needs to do this far in advance! 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

What are his responsibilities for the big day? You still have a TON of time, and you’ve already got quite a bit done this far out. What is it you want him to do?

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@quanta10:  Um…..yes I think you are jumping the gun. Like…a lot. I think you should step back, relax a little. I also highly recommend not putting pressure on your FI about minute and mundane wedding details this far out. 

Post # 6
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280 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Oh wow. My wedding is in 2 months (to the day tomorrow) and I haven’t purchased bridesmaid gifts yet!

I don’t think you’re anxious…maybe excited. 🙂

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@quanta10:  But you also want him to be excited. ANd being suuuper anxious is not going to make this an enjoyable experience for him. 

Post # 11
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1408 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@quanta10:  You dont really need his guest list yet. I am having a destination wedding and we finalized our guest list 11 months out which is SUPER early. Unless you are having a destination wedding, you have plenty of time. We set aside one night and busted out our guest list over a bottle of wine. It was done in a few hours and it was quite enjoyable. Maybe try that tactic instead of waiting for him to do it on his own but again, you have plenty of time for that 🙂 

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