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Am I weird for feeling this way about upcoming engagement?

posted 3 months ago in Waiting
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    LuckyClover    April 26, 2013   Kansas City

    As I said in my last thread, SO and I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel and a proposal is in the very near future.

    Am I super excited? YES!!! But is it weird that I'm more excited that we're at a point where we can stop barely treading water and can start actually swimming toward a future?

     
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    If I am understanding your analogy correctly then I'd say no, that sounds like a perfectly logical reaction to me. =) It's always nice to feel like things are moving forward!

     
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    Pollywog    July 13, 2013  

    Nope, not at all. Once I found out for sure it is happening this month, I'm so happy it'll be over. The waiting makes me so insecure and I want to move forward to the next stage.

     
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    ChiBride09    May 31, 2013   Chicago

    No, it's not weird at all!  I'm right there with you!  Although mine comes with wedding plans...  SO and I keep talking about the wedding but he doesn't want to book anything until we're actually engaged...  I feel like I'm treading water since I can't book anything...  but once he proposes I can move forward with all of this stuff!  :)

     
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    Pollywog    July 13, 2013  

    Nope, not at all. Once I found out for sure it is happening this month, I'm so happy it'll be over. The waiting makes me so insecure and I want to move forward to the next stage.

     
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    LuckyClover    April 26, 2013   Kansas City

    I feel like I'm weird because I'm more excited that some major bills are getting paid and we don't have to constantly worry about them and can actually breathe every month instead of holding our breath. 

    I'm definatley excited about my ring and his proposal but not jumping up and down like I am for the bills.

     
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    tea       norcal

    Not at all! I'm at that point myself. though engagement is still a bit away, we have made one definitive step towards it.

     

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