- 3 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013
So I posted the other day that I am having issues with bridesmaid dresses and FMIL making them, I am going to tell her that I’m not happy with them tonight or tomorrow morning, however another issue I think I should bring up with her is that when I last spoke to her she told me she was making a dress for FI younger niece so she can change from the bridesmaid dress to some 50’s style gothic skull and red rose print dress! So at the time I let it go over my head, the more I think about it the more I think it is just a little rude. Maybe I am being over the top but I am not changing into another dress! And its not like a skull and Red rose dress is a subtle dress it is a statement piece! So do I also bring this up with her and say I don’t think it is right to have the niece change into something which clearly will be an in your face style dress! Advice from bees on my other post is that I should take control because otherwise she will walk all over me so shouldn’t I be strong and actually just tell her No! I find it so hard to say no but now the more I think it all over the more I feel I have a right. I have a right to feel the bell of the ball as they say and am not having her upstage me through FI niece or herself.