(Closed) Am I wrong to be annoyed?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Nope, I would be annoyed too!  Can you get him to talk to her? 

I mean, in the end…you want people there who will support you, right?  I hope that she can provide this support, but if she’s only going to provide stress…

Post # 4
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5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

You have every right to be annoyed.  No ANNOYED.  Make that ANNOYED!!!!! 

I certainly hope, for your sake, that she senses the importance of getting this taken care of in a timely manner.  My fingers are crossed for you!!

Post # 6
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5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

@Jushackett:  I hear ya!  I’m ultra-organized, especially when it comes to super important things.  I’m sure it’ll all work out, so try not to let it worry you too much. 

Post # 7
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132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I think if nothing else they shouldn’t be adding to your stress by leaving thier one task to the last minute.

Potentially sounds like she may either not realise how long it will take or she may not want to come….have you talked to your FI about this?

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2011

ARG! Yes, you have every right to be annoyed!!

However, don’t dwell on this. Like someone said to me: ” The people who truly want to be there will make it happen and you don’t need to worry about it. At the end of the day, you will be married to your love” Honestly, just that bit of advice has gotten me through a LOT.

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