Am I wrong to feel slighted?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Breathe. Perhaps the decorating entails garland, lights and such and she is saving the tree decorating part of it for you. Either that, or she found someone else she would rather hang with and messed up her lie. What can you do? Call her out on it? If it’s that important to you, sure, otherwise, think back to whether you’ve ever done this to someone before.

Post # 3
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12779 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

The whole exchange here is confusing.  Either the situation is just that confusing or I lost the story somewhere in your explaination.  She could have change her mind for any reason.  If “decorating” is just for hanging out, waht difference does it make if she starts it.  I dont think i’d be slightly just based on this exchange.

Post # 5
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85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Is it possible that her SO heard of your plans and told her he wanted to hang out alone? So dinner is with him and then they’ll start decorating but she’ll see you next weekend? Often, my husband hears of our plans and says “But I wanted you all to myself, tonight” – type of thing.

Post # 7
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6840 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

So…you’re mad you didn’t get to decorate someone else’s tree? I don’t get it.

Post # 8
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85 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Westwood:  No, I think she feels disrespected or lied to. That’s the part she’s mad at. I think.

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