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Am I wrong to want it all?

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    hisswallow    September 18, 2014   Ontario, Canada

    I was married before and it was a really short engagement/courtship (Huge mistake. HUGE. Gigantic) and didn't get any of the fun stuff like planning the wedding (he was a control freak and wanted it HIS way), the bachlorette party, the engagement party although I did get a small bridal party. This time around, I want to enjoy my engagement and planning the wedding and I want to have some of those things.

    I don't want fussy and over the top fabulous. I dont want gifts and money. I just want friends and family who love us to celebrate our future life together and have those things that most brides get when they are getting married. Even our wedding ceremony will be small (under 20 people) but romantic.

    Am I wrong to want all of this because I didnt have it before and have finally met the RIGHT man for me?

     
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    judya64    October 2, 2010   connecticut

    Your definetly not wrong.  Go for it, it's your day.  Your entiltled to it just like everyone else. (The first one didn't count)

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    nope =]

     
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    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    I don't think you're wrong at all for wanting all of the celebration that comes along with a wedding.  You finally found the right guy.  That's a big reason to celebrate! :)

     
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    Lees4308    March 13, 2010   Panama City Beach, FL.

    No, you are not wrong!!! You had a bad experience the first time around & before it gets too late, you definintely want to have the full experience! :) Is someone giving you a hard time about it? I say ROCK IT...this is YOUR time!

     
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    Navy_Baby    July 3, 2010   Northern Virginia

    Not wrong at all.  My aunt and her first husband eloped, so she didn't get to have any of the things to go with a wedding.  She is now getting married again (her first husband passed almost ten years ago), and the two are going to have the ceremony, reception, everything.  I think that it is a great opportunity for her and don't see anything wrong with it!

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    Not wrong at all!!! :-)

     
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    I think it's cool you want it all!  Live the dream this time, and relish every minute of it!

     

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