- 5 years ago
HI Ladies, if you read back though my posts you’ll see that my guy has already bought the ring. I know because I went with him, chose it and he bought it. That was 3 weeks ago. Since then he’s had it in his wardrobe, in a bag from the jewellers, in plain sight. I wouldn’t have to snoop to find it, it’s just sitting there in front of my nose! And I’ve been really good and haven’t gone near it.
But bees, because I was there when it was bought, and because it’s just sitting there in front of me with no attempt to hide it, I just kinda feel like it’s not that special to him. Maybe he’s not expecting me to be surprised because I chose it but I do want to be surprised! Though I was happy to help choose it, I didn’t want to be there when he bought it- it just took some of the magic and mystery off it you know? And now I feel like that magic and mystery is still absent because it’s just sitting in front of me in it’s box.
I don’t know ladies, and sorry about the rant, but what would you do in my situation?