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    Ms Hedgehog    July 10, 2011   Dallas/ Ft Worth TX

    Thanks so much for your guys' support through all this. This didn't start out like we had planned and the news from the Dr. isn't any different. According to him, where the babies should be at 12 weeks now according to the origional HGC levels and the measurements, they are producing levels closer to 7 weeks... Which is a drop. I have had 5 blood tests as of yet and each one either stays the same or drops slightly. And with twins it is supposed to be much much higher. He said it is possible for things to pick up and that BC hormones could be messing with them but to keep a level head. The reality is that if things continue going the way they are right now, we wont carry to term. Part of me is devistated and another part is hopeful. And another part still hasn't fully come to terms with the reality that I am even pregnant. All this is crazy and complicated. I go in in two days for more tests and the results of the one they took today. It is absolutely insane how fast this is all happening. One moment it is "Surprise! Your pregnant!" The next is "It's twins!" and now its "Very close to miscariage". I honestly hope things level out and pick back up. I don't know how I will handle it if they don't.

    I hate being a downer and I probably sound so confusing. Honestly, when he was talking it was like I was watching somebody elses life behind a curtain and I took in as much as I could but I know I didn't fully hear everything. I am just in a daze right now...

    Thanks for your support guys. I will keep you as updated as I can.

     
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    chittychittybanebane    October 22, 2011  

    HUGS AND PRAYERS being sent. Rest up for now and try to stay positive. You have lots of support and love surrounding you.

     
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    jessiesbabe    February 18, 2013  

    My cousin just gave birth. 13 weeks too early. The baby is thriving! Breathing on her own, even! So what ever happens, stay positive and optimistic, just like my cousin. It will work out as it was meant to.

     
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    hisgoosiegirl    June 18, 2011  

    @Ms Hedgehog: Oh my gosh, you and DH have been on such a rollercoaster of emotions this past week. I follow a couple infertility blogs and I knew the HCG wasn't good, especially if it is twins :( Many thoughts and prayers to you and DH during this uncertain time.

     
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    MissPumpkinPie    October 13, 2012   Jersey Shore

    I had no idea you found out about the possibility of having twins! My gosh, this must be throwing you in a whirlwind.  I will keep you and Mr. Hedgie in my thoughts and prayers.  (hugs)

     
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    MaraBeth    December 3, 2011   Dallas, TX

    I don't know if I've commented on either of your other threads, but I've been following your posts and I wish you the best. It sounds like all of these major pieces of life-changing news have been a total emotional roller coaster, so I hope everything works out for the best for you and your husband--sending hugs your way!

     
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    mousegirl    May 20, 2011   New Mexico/wedding in Asheville NC

    Take care of yourself (even better let Mr. Hedgie take care of you) and think positive thoughts.

     
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    Heatherloveskenny    June 4, 2011  

    I'm so sorry Hedgie, I hope everything turns out for the best. I'll say a prayer and I'm sending hugs your way!

     
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    atalante    May 19, 2012  

    Sending good thoughts your way. Just try to take things as they come. It will work out.

     
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    Crisark    November 5, 2011   WV

    Wow. I am hoping the very best for you!!! 

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    I must have missed where you found out its twins!! I am hoping good things for you and hubs

     
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    mandypop    September 15, 2012   BAHHHston

    What a rollercoaster!

    Sending positive thoughts your way.  For better or worse, this is one of those circumstances where you have so little control, and just have to hope that things turn out the best way they possibly could.

     

    *hugs

     
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    cyndistar3    September 3, 2011   Post Falls ID

    Oh my goodness! I am praying for you my dear, I hope everything picks up for ya!

     
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    Jazziberry    June 11, 2011   Middle TN / Married in Annapolis, MD

    I didn't know it was TWINS!!! Best wishes and good thoughts for a healthy pregnancy for both you and the Little Ones <3 

     
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    Coffee cup    December 7, 2012   Sonora, Mexico

    *Big hug* Sending positive vibes to you, and wishing for the best.

     
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    HeatherE209    July 7, 2012   Lodi, CA

    ((HUGS)) and lots and lots of prayers for you!!!

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    *HUGS*  What a roller coaster of emotions you have had this past week!  I'm so sorry to hear how uncertain things are now but I will be hoping and praying for you and the little hoglets.

    PM me if you want or need to talk or vent about it.  I know we live close and I don't know what, if anything, you've shared with friends and family.  I'll be a local shoulder or ear if you need one!

     
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    Prewitt    June 19, 2011   England

    @Ms Hedgehog: I'm so sorry you're going through this. I knew you were pregnant but didn't know you were expecting twins. Sending thoughts and a big hug.

     
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    MrsMcGyro    July 9, 2011   New York

    Yikes, that's a lot to be going through. Hang tough. Hugs.

     
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    MrsStrz    November 6, 2010  

    You'll be in my thoughts & prayers. So sorry that you're going through all of this so suddenly. :/

     
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    SparklyBride2011    June 9, 2012   Los Angeles County Area

    *Hugs* I too must have missed that you were having twins.  Thoughts and prayers are with you!!

     
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    galloway111    June 16, 2012   WI

    Wow, you've been through so much this last week! Sending lots of prayers your way. You've been super strong throughout this and I give you so much credit for that!

     
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    mwitter80    December 11, 2010   Connecticut

    whooof. This is a lot to contend with in such a short period of time. I'm sure you feel like you're on a psychotic rollercoaster. Huge hugs, and will keep you in my heart. 

     
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    stokieGal    December 15, 2012   stoke on trent, uk

    just wanted to send my love, all the best in your pregnancy i know it is difficult but the best thing is just to rest and stay positive. xxx 

     
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    banana_anna    October 30, 2011   Melbourne, Australia

    I have been following your story and I'll be thinking of you. best of luck

     
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    oracle    October 23, 2010   Los Angeles

    Whoa.  That is SO much to take in.  One day at a time - that's all you can do.  Super big hugs.  Please keep us updated.  We are all here for you!

     
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    iheartnerds    October 9, 2011   Massachusetts

    ((((HUGS))))

     
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    lawgirl12    March 10, 2012  

    I know it's hard to stay positive when there's so much going on, but hang in there. Get some much needed rest. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

     
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    cvbee    August 13, 2010   canada

    keep us updated: we will all be thinking of you!

     
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    Mrs. Amethyst    June 5, 2010  

    @Ms Hedgehog:  Best wishes to you and your family... you're in my thoughts sweetie. 

     
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    Cole B    October 16, 2010   Northern Indiana

    Oh goodness, I can't imagine the rollercoaster of emotion you & DH have faced this week. Hugs & Prayers for you, DH & your two little hedgehogs. Be good to yourself!

     
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    Evie19    January 21, 2012  

    Im so sorry youre going through this... sending hugs your way, youll be in my prayers...

     
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    eeniebeans    October 9, 2010   Baltimore

    Thinking of you!

     
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    Sending prayers and thoughts for you, Mr. Hedgie, and the little hogs. Best wishes.

     
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    ms sweets    September 3, 2010  

    I'm so sorry I really hope everything is ok, hang in there :)

     
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    guitargirl    October 2009   Ohio

    Wow- you have had a crazy week!  Hugs and prayers!

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    wishing you the best!

     
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    saraja87    March 26, 2011   Los Angeles

    Major good thoughts going your way, hope everything turns out alright <3

     
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    Mrs Sarah McK    October 10, 2010   Harrisburg, PA

    Oh honey, thinking about you tonight. 

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    Wishing you sticky baby dust!  Be strong!

     

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