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    runnerdoc26    May 28, 2011   Madison, Wi

    Hello all. I am 26, almost 27, and have the time old question regarding tanning. To tan or not to tan. MY complextion is olive, I tan easily. I spent HOURS in a tanning bed when i was younger, and though I know it's not good for you, what's my alternative? My dress was nearly $2500, I don't want to do the airbrush and risk it running on that day. I can go 2x a week for 6 weeks, adn that's IT. I ALWAYS cover my face and actually apply SPF........ What's your thoughts? I know, I know, I know it's bad for me. I'm goign to be a doctor....I know.......Just help me find an alternative BEES! ;) Love to all.

     

     
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    MissHoneyBun       Dallas, TX

    I vote no. Spray tan beforehand if you must, but with an olive complexion, why would you?

     
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    NDBee    March 10, 2012  

    Have you tried any of the gradual self-tanner lotions? I use a lovely (and cheap!) hemp lotion from Walmart that adds a nice, subtle color. I am also very pale, so you may have different results with olive skin, but since you have a few months maybe try playing around with a few different self-tanner or gradual self-tanner lotions. I'd hit the tanning bed as a very last resort...one day of tan goodness is not worth the wrinkles or skin cancer later. 

     
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    PuntaCanaBride    March 30, 2012  

    For a wedding I would tan. In general I don't agree with tanning all the time. But for wedding or special event I have done it.

     
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    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    I wouldn't, but you're asking the wrong girl. I've never tanned (I also turn into a lobster if I even try) so I'm happily pale. With an olive complexion, I'm really not sure why you'd need a tan though? And if you did, I'm sure the weather is nice in May. A couple of days laying out naturally may work.

     
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    blondilocks    June 11, 2011   Atlanta

    My BFF sprayed 3 days before the wedding, it was hot outside and it ran and totally ruined the inside of her dress and you could see around the armpit area of her dress at the end of the night.  If even showed up in pics.  Ill be going to the beach for my bachelorette party and tanning my head off a month before so I dont look lobsterized  but I dont plan on specifically wedding tanning.  I fyou have olive skin, steer clear, im sure you will look gorgeous!

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I was a pale bride and proud of it!  If us pale girls still look great on our wedding day, I'm sure your natural coloring will look great too!

     
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    ellabee    July 3, 2011   Virginia

    KNow what? I'm olive, too. And... I have *never* tanned before, but I am actually considering it.

     

    Don't ask me for advice, I'll say go for it...

     
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    maureen9004    August 2008  

    I vote no, unless you have self control. So many of my clients are gorgeous- a few weeks before the wedding they catch the tanning bug. The day of the wedding their skin is tan (see: pinkish red) and they don't look nearly as natural as they do in their engagement photos.

     
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    emilygrace07    June 25, 2011   Ft. Thomas, Ky

    yeah  do it.  i dont know about going 12 times though... i would say go twice a week for three weeks or something, especially if you tan easily

     
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    ellabee    July 3, 2011   Virginia

    @maureen9004: good advice! i will tan, and stop 2 weeks before. is that fair? :)

     
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    runnerdoc26    May 28, 2011   Madison, Wi

    THANKS GIRLS!!!! I forgot to mention- I have horrible tan lines from my triathlon training. It's my 3rd year doing triathlons and I've done 2 ironmans. So I spend a lot of time on my bike with the sun staring at my skin. I go through BOTTLES Of SPF in a summer!!! Don't get me wrong, I love the rays but am smart..........MY dress is strapless, I need to get rid of the tan lines of my sports bra and racerback LOL!!!!!!!!!!!

     
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    double0bride    April 23, 2011  

    @runnerdoc26: I'm also gonna be a doc, I also run and do triathlons, I also have a strapless dress and get mad tan lines! Tanning bed=more wrinkles @ your future anniversary dinners, and possible nasty melanoma. We both know it!

    Here's my plan: Indoor swim training whenever possible. Bringing a large selection of different necklines and sleeve lengths into the mix. Early morn/late eve training. MAJOR sunblock. Strapless swimsuit if at the lake recreationally. Strapless tops if going out on hot sunny days. Lightweight, long sleeve tops on cooler sunny days. MAJOR sunblock. Sunglass tan? Wearing a baseball cap too, to shade the face more evenly.

    All that done and still lines? Exfoliate, use some bronzing powder to shade in areas that won't possibly touch your dress, and if all else fails- no more than two tanning sessions, a week before the big day. And, you guessed it, an indoor tanning lotion with MAJOR sunblock.

     
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    double0bride    April 23, 2011  

    Oh- and for total "reply overkill"- invest in a few sportsbras that are not racerback so you can switch that up, and some of them fancy UV blocking t-shirts.

     
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    runnerdoc26    May 28, 2011   Madison, Wi

    @double0bride: Thanks girl, you know I've been waiting for someone to post that to me ;) !!!!!

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @double0bride: I totally agree and have planned to do everything you have just stated (minus the running and swimming 'cause I suck real bad...)

     
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    Evie19    January 21, 2012  

    Everytime someone posts a question about tanning I quickly read all the responses b/c I am also trying to decide what to do!!

    I have olive skin too, and I do not necessarily want to be dark or look like i have just come from the beach...but I do want to have more of a warmth to my color.

    I think after hearing what a lot of bees have had to say- a few trips to the tanning booth is probably what I'll do- i have never been to a tanning booth, and will never go again...Isn't it dangerous if it is a regular habit? Maybe I'm wrong, but that's what I've always assumed...

    There is no way I'd risk having some of the spray tan sweat onto my dress...yikes.

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @Evie19:   

    The World Health Organization's cancer division last summer listed tanning beds as definitive cancer-causers, right alongside the ultraviolet radiation that both they and the sun emit. They'd long been considered "probable" carcinogens, but what tipped the scales: An analysis of numerous studies that concluded the risk of melanoma jumps by 75 percent in people who used tanning beds in their teens and 20s.

    Check it out...

    http://www.skincancer.org/Tanning/

     
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    Evie19    January 21, 2012  

    @Mrs.tobe: Thank you Mrs. Tobe, I am reading now.

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @Evie19: I am guilty.... I tanned when I was younger, but honestly not all that much. And I never had moles, or any spots I would have considered "iffy". Then last year I found a tiny little spot on the back of my calf. It grew to five times the size it started out as in about 9 months.

    Long story short, I went to the Derm. They biopsied, tested for pathology, and found it to be atypical. Meaning: Not cancerous now, but it had potential. They had to go in and "core" out the entire spot and stitch me up. I have the scar on my leg to scare the beJesus out of me any time I think tanning would be a good idea.

    I've also found a few more spots that I'm nervous about. Not sure if I'm being paranoid, or if I should get them checked. :/

     
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    indyJEEP    July 30, 2011   San Francisco, CA

    I'm already tanning.

    The plan was/is to be tan before any possible tan lines can show up and then I'll continue to "fake and bake" again every once in a while to semi-maintain it. I know it's terrible, but this is basically the last time in my life that I ever care to have an even tan, so hopefully I won't die from skin cancer after all (jokinggg). I always wear sunscreen and I rarely keep the face lamps on when I do go, so I'd like to think that I'm being a teeny-tiny-bit-of-a-smidge better about it. Pshyaaa rightttt! 

    But. I. Will. Be. Tan. Dang. It. !    

     
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    Evie19    January 21, 2012  

    @Mrs.tobe: I'm glad your spots were not cancerous and that you took care of them!

    I read the link you gave me, and it does not mention the extent to which someone would have to tan in correlation to the extent/likelihood of negative effects.

    Of course, health is more important than a tan! I just still (maybe stupidly) wonder if tanning 5 times in my entire life would really make an impact?

    Do the self tanning lotions really make a visible difference? If so, I would conider doing that instead- that wouldn't rub off, right?

    You should check out any spots you have just to put your mind at ease, if for any othe reason.

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @Evie19: I heard of a study that came out recently about the increased risk correlating with amount of times been to the tanning bed. But I'm not sure where to find it. I think I saw it on the news maybe?

    And I know I should totally get them checked. I'm just scared they'll tell me more of the same. "Time to cut on you again!"  Ughhh... Stupid reasoning, but true.

     
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    Evie19    January 21, 2012  

    @Mrs.tobe: I understand it's difficult and your dreading it, but imagine how relieved you will be emotionally to know they are being taken care of...and they may say it's nothing!

     

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @Evie19: I know... thanks for the kind words :)

     
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    Evie19    January 21, 2012  

    :)

     
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    NDBee    March 10, 2012  

    @Evie19: I think the self-tanning lotions do make a visable difference. I have spray tanned once (never again...I was snookie/oompa-tastic!) but when I use my self-tanning lotion for 3 days in a row (it's a gradual tan) is when I get the most compliments and people ask if I've been tanning. It doesn't rub off on my clothes, and if you're really concerned about it you can test some out at night and sleep in a white night shirt and see how the morning turns out. 

     
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    Evie19    January 21, 2012  

    @NDBee: Wonderful! That's what I'll go for...and also, itll be nice to just have to do something in-house rather than add one more "chore" in the weeks before the wedding to have to keep going to a tanning bed.

    Which self tanner lotion works best for you? I have olive skin, does that matter?

    Congrats ladies you have protected me from UV rays AND saved my time. :)

     
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    jo.lee    September 10, 2011   Indianapolis

    I have olive skin (when I have a tan, lol), and I'm not sure if I'll be tanning. I'll probably just wear my strapless bathing suit at the pool and go from there :). I definitely wouldn't overdo it if I were you, I'd just aim for a nice healthy glow.

     
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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    i went to the tanning bed 4 times prior to my wedding and i think i got dark enough for february. i went twice 2 weeks before and then twice the week before but i gave myself a few days between tanning and the wedding...i didnt want to be red at all.

     
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    Evie19    January 21, 2012  

    I don't want to overdo it at all, but i do want to add some warmth to my skin tone. It will be Jan. and I will be at the very pale end of olive. Also, when I have a glow I feel like I look a bit thinner and more toned.

     
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    Samantha7    June 25, 2011   Missouri

    @NDBee: what self tanner do you use? I have been thinking about tanning for the wedding too, also I am doing a boudoir session and don't want to be ghostly for it! Any self tanners that you recommend or wouldn't recommend? Thanks so much!

     
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    NDBee    March 10, 2012  

    @Evie19:@Samantha7: I pick up this super cheap Malibu Hemp Golden Glow lotion from Walmart of all places!

    It is a really great moisturizer, and I like that it's not a 'self-tanner' in the way that you put on gloves and rub it all in and do all this fanciness, I just apply it everywhere like a regular lotion you'd put on after a shower, let it dry just a bit, and get dressed and go. Since I am SO pale (blonde, blue eyes, and in ND where exposing your skin to the sun = frostbite 8 months of the year, hehe), I alternate it with regular lotion every other day rather than putting it on each day for 7 days, just so I don't get too tan. 

     
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    MissSawyer    September 1, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    I haven't read the thread and most people have probably said spray tan/do nothing but I plan on tanning. I have gone tanning in the past, I often tan before going on tropical vacations because I'm fair and will literally lobster even with 100 spf if I don't have a base, so why wouldn't I get a slight bit of color for the big day?

     
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    runnerdoc26    May 28, 2011   Madison, Wi

    HEY LADIES- GUess what??????IM going to walmart to pick up Malibu Hemp Golden Glow lotion per recommendation above :) i'm going to try it out and see how i like it before may. YOu're all right, and I know the RIGHT Decision!- It's not worth it to have an atypical bx or even worse a malignant one. I have NO MOLES, NO worries, NO family hx of skin caner. HOWEVER that doesn't protect me. So......i'm picking up the malibu hemp to try out and will then post about it for your review :) we'll see what the spring brings. Love to you all. Thanks for the responses, seriously. You BEES are theeeeeeeeeee BEeeeeeeeeesttttttt ;)

     

     
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    cyneswith    May 14, 2011   Augusta, GA

    I've known three people quite close to me with varieties of skin cancer.  One died a long and extremely painful death from it - he was in his 30s.  Melanoma tumors in his brain, lungs, throat, liver, skin, etc.  They attempted every treatment, and were only able to partially remove one tumor.  

    ETA: thanks for going with a safe option.

     
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    NDBee    March 10, 2012  

    @runnerdoc26: I hope it works out well for you! For my face, I mix a dab of the tanner with a dab of my moisturizer, just so that it doesn't all suck into a dry spot and get blotchy. I'm curious to see how this works for olive/darker skin tones!

     
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    BayStateBride    September 1, 2012   Cow Hampshire (wedding in MA)

    I have an olive skin tone and I use St. Moriz mousse foam (the "generic" version of St. Tropez).  I tried so many drugstore tanning lotions but they all made my skin look orange.  This is the first product I found that actually leaves me with a golden-brown tan.  It's the most natural looking fake tan (oxymoron much?) that I have found.  I use a tanning mitt to put on the mousse so I don't have to worry about my hands/nails being colored. The St Moriz mousse looks scary when you put it on (very dark) but it washes off to a nice color.  So I put it on before bed and wash the residue off in the shower the next morning.  Oh, and I made sure to moisturize and exfoliate before putting it on.

    Good luck with the Malibu Hemp Golden Glow!  I haven't tried this one.  Let us know how it turns out.  :)

     
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    Samantha7    June 25, 2011   Missouri

    @BayStateBride:where do you buy your St. Moriz mousse, online, I just hate thinking of paying for shipping for another thing!!!

     
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    MissDareDevil    April 2, 2011  

    tan! going 2 x a week for  a short period of time is not going to kill you.

    i'd want color in my wedding photos. i think a nice glow does WONDERS!

     

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