No newer images
more by robotpolkadot
Important FYI: Birth Control Recall
have only 2 weeks left to do the marriage registration, but no ring yet
more in Proposals
We're ENGAGED!!!! <3  **ring pics included
possible positive pregnancy test
more in Boards
Bustles!

And then a giant wave came in and knocked us over... (Ring pic!)

posted 3 months ago in Proposals
  •  
    1.
    Member
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    robotpolkadot    October 2013  

    It's been a few months since it happened, but I've never shared my proposal story on here!

    My boyfriend and I were in the Caribbean for a destination wedding over the summer. On the last night of the trip, he kept insisting we go out to dinner somewhere just to spend some time away from the other wedding guests. Well, stupid me, I kept shooting down his date offer because I still had to pack for our flight the next morning! He finally convinced me to go, so I begrudgingly went to find something more appropriate than a beach cover-up to wear to dinner. But since it was the last night of our trip, I had no clean clothes! I pulled on some jeans, a tank top, and a wrinkled cotton jacket. I felt like a jerk when I saw my boyfriend's perfectly pulled-together outfit.

    When we got to the restaurant (pictured below so you can see why I felt so stupid wearing jeans!), we were seated at the bar until our table was ready. It was there on the barstools I noticed something square in my boyfriend's pocket. I teased him about it: "What's that? Can I see? Can I see?" He got flustered and said, "No! It's a little gift I got for you in town today, but I'm giving it to you after dinner." I didn't really get the hint. I was expecting a necklace or something. Besides, I had always said he could never propose to me in a public place, so... Anyway, after a melon daiquiri (mine) and a mojito (his) we took our seats right here, overlooking the water. 

    And then a giant wave came in and knocked us over... (Ring pic!) :  wedding island proposal dinner beach wave engagement ring ering Restaurant

    Now, it's worth mentioning the weather was a little iffy that evening. A hurricane off the coast was churning up the sea and the wind was a steady 20mph. After we ordered our delicious, fancy entrees, my boyfriend asked our server if we could take a walk down on the beach while our meals were prepared. We did just that.

    At this point, though, my boyfriend was a nervous wreck and I was starting to wonder what tonight was really about. He downright ran ahead of me to the beach where the wind was whipping and I was stumbling through the sand trying to catch up. And then, it was the moment I had been waiting for for years. He got down on one knee and opened the box that had been in his pocket and said the lovely, mushy things every gal wants to hear. And he asked the question, the BIG question. Would I marry him?

    My respose?

    "OH WOW! Can you afford that?!" (Ugh. I'm such an ass!)

    And then,

    "Really? REALLY?! YES!!!"

    We stood up, hugged, kissed, smiled, laughed, and began to trek back up to get our dinners. And that's when a massive hurricane wave came up and knocked us over. 

    So, dripping wet and encrusted in sand, our shoes squelching, we went back into the restaurant to enjoy our meals. A few people came up to us with their congratulations. One random lady memorably said, "Enjoy this feeling, hon. It won't last forever." (YIKES.) Our bartender came over to admire my beautiful new ring. Our server informed us that my fiance's sister (who had known the whole time) called and ordered drinks for us. When we got back to our hotel, I called my family and then we celebrated with the remaining guests of the destination wediing. They all knew too, by the way.

    It was a really beautiful night, though not without a couple silly hiccups. But that's what made the night exclusively ours, right? :)

    Here's my ring, which he had sneakily gotten earlier in the day when he noticed me admiring it in a jewelry shop!

    And then a giant wave came in and knocked us over... (Ring pic!) :  wedding island proposal dinner beach wave engagement ring ering Ering

     

    PS I'm sorry this was so long... I just got totally caught up remembering all the little details!

     
    2.
    Member Icon
    Member
    2,180 posts
    Buzzing bee
    love108    September 2014  

    @robotpolkadot:  Wow, that's so exciting!! And he bought it WHILE ON THE TRIP! What a guy. It's beautiful!

     
    3.
    Member
    1,003 posts
    Bumble bee
    Olive12    October 6, 2012   Houston

    Yay!!!! Congratulations.

     
    4.
    Member
    230 posts
    Helper bee
    Ms Rocky Road    July 2013  

    Congratulations! What a funny story especially your first response to his question :)

    Beautiful ring also

     
    5.
    Member
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    robotpolkadot    October 2013  

    @love108:  @Olive12:  @Ms Rocky Road:  Thank you, Bees! I'm feeling all warm inside sharing the story again!

     
    6.
    Member Icon
    Member
    2,180 posts
    Buzzing bee
    love108    September 2014  

    They look like old cut stones, is it an antique? I am so in love.

     
    7.
    Member
    5,733 posts
    Bee Keeper
    Juliepants    June 2, 2012   Ontario

    Congratulations, that's a beautiful ring!

     
    8.
    Member
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    robotpolkadot    October 2013  

    @love108:  I don't think it's an actual antique, but what first attracted me to it was its vintagey vibe!

    @Juliepants:  Thank you! :)

     
    9.
    Member
    558 posts
    Busy bee
    Novella    July 7, 2012   Australia

    Congratulations - the picture of your ring is lovely!

     
    10.
    Member
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    robotpolkadot    October 2013  

    @Novella:  Thanks, love!

     
    11.
    Member
    5,306 posts
    Bee Keeper
    BayStateBride    September 1, 2012   Cow Hampshire (wedding in MA)

    What an excitement-filled proposal! Congratulations!

     
    12.
    Member
    1,263 posts
    Bumble bee
    mypinkshoes    April 28, 2012   mexico/ontario

    what a beautiful story.   your ring is gorgeous.  congratulations.

     
    13.
    Member
    1,871 posts
    Buzzing bee
    spaneshal    October 19, 2012   UK

    Congratulations, I like the way your FI picked up on the ring you were admiring, thats a guy worth marrying :)

     
    14.
    Member
    6,190 posts
    Bee Keeper
    MissPumpkinPie    October 13, 2012   Jersey Shore

    Congratulations!!

     
    15.
    Member
    552 posts
    Busy bee
    FutureMsVW    August 4, 2012  

    Congrats! What a gorgeous ring, and a great story!

     
    16.
    Hostess
    10,912 posts
    Sugar
    Beekeeper
    bakerella    September 11, 2010   Toronto, ON

    That is an awesome story!!! It made me laugh ;) GORGEOUS GORGEOUS ring!! Cheers to memorable proposals, I had one too :)

     
    17.
    Member
    138 posts
    Blushing bee
    jillmatt    February 18, 2012  

    haha, I love the title of your post! really beautiful proposal story, and beautiful ring. congrats!

     
    18.
    Member
    737 posts
    Busy bee
    shirasagi    May 25, 2013   GA

    Such a cute story!! I love that you guys got caught by a wave, but I'm glad it happened after the proposal and not before or during!I can't imagine losing that gorgeous ring in a wave! Congratulations!!!

     
    19.
    Member
    5,969 posts
    Bee Keeper
    AmeliaBedelia    March 3, 2012   Georgia

    Oh, wow! Beautiful ring and funny story. Congrats! :)

     
    20.
    Member
    2,138 posts
    Buzzing bee
    Brielle    May 22, 2009  

    Oh wow! What a great story and what an AMAZING ring! I love it!!! Of course, what I want to know is, do you still have your ring box or was it washed away at sea in that big wave?!?! (I'm very sentimental ... I would want to keep the box, lol! Either way, thank goodness you were wearing your beautiful ring by that point!)

     
    21.
    Member
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    robotpolkadot    October 2013  

    @BayStateBride:  @mypinkshoes:  @MissPumpkinPie:  @FutureMsVW:  @bakerella:  @jillmatt:  @shirasagi:  @AmeliaBedelia:  Thank you So much for all the love, Bees! I'm happy as a clam, even 6 months later!

    @Brielle:  Yes, I'm sentimental too, and I'm very happy the box somehow survived the wave! Oddly, when FI picked out the ring, it was given to him in a small silk pouch rather than a ring box. Unbeknownst to me, earlier that afternoon, the guests at our hotel were partaking in "Operation Find a Ring Box." FI later told me he thought it would be too lame to pull the ring out of a bag rather than opening a box, so he rallied everyone he knew to find a box he could have! I now have both the pouch and the box. :) 

     
    22.
    Member Icon
    Member
    12 posts
    Newbee
    pixie24      

    awww such a cute story! and BEAUTIFUL ring! 

     
    23.
    Member
    5,367 posts
    Bee Keeper
    pinkshoes    July 2011   MA

    HAHA I love the story, and you REALLY said "can you afford that??" ???  That's hilarious!  Congrats!  Ring is gorgeous!

     
    24.
    Member
    5,938 posts
    Bee Keeper
    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    So cute.  Congrats!

     
    25.
    Member
    2,388 posts
    Buzzing bee
    sugarpea    June 14, 2014   Ontario, Canada

    That's a really sweet (and funny) story (: Congratulations! I'm so happy for both of you & I love your ring!

     
    26.
    Member
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    robotpolkadot    October 2013  

    @pixie24:  @SapphireSun:  @sugarpea:  Aw, thank you all so much! :D

    @pinkshoes:  Haha YES I really did say that! It's weird, the things we blurt out in surprise.

     
    27.
    Member
    1,975 posts
    Buzzing bee
    maudemaisha       Montreal

    @robotpolkadot:  hahahha wha an awesome story !! This one is gonna be so much fun to say years from now ! :) Congratulations dear :) 

     
    28.
    Member
    961 posts
    Busy bee
    Mrs.Lonestar    June 3, 2012   lives in NYC, wedding in Austin, TX

    i'm glad you didn't lose the ring in the wave!! it's beautiful

     
    29.
    Member
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    robotpolkadot    October 2013  

    @maudemaisha:  I like to think so! :)

    @Mrs.Lonestar:  Thank you!!

     
    30.
    Member
    331 posts
    Helper bee
    Jezika    June 2013   Toronto

    Aw, that sounds perfect. And truly, what a beautiful ring. It's awesome that you picked it out and yet it was still a complete surprise. Congratulations!

     
    31.
    Member
    90 posts
    Worker bee
    robotpolkadot    October 2013  

    @Jezika:  Thanks! I have to admit that was pretty savvy of him. :)

     
    32.
    Member
    301 posts
    Helper bee
    NessaNessa    March 7, 2012   Rhode Island

    He sounds like a catch! :) this was a great story, thanks for sharing! Very smart of him :)

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    ellisrobertson 21
    MsPanda 15
    aduarte3201 14
    ShellVee 10
    londonchick 9
    londonpeach84 8
    KimKimmieKim 8
    pengoala 7
    ladyartichoke 6
    ndreighton 6

    Proposals


    Sorry, there are no users yet.


    More