(Closed) ..and then there were 3. Lost BM.

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
636 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Wow! That is crazy! You didn’t have any indication that she as upset before she ‘broke up’ with you?  If your relationship has been the same since you got engaged, eg. still talking on the phone and getting together, I would guess there are other things going on in her life that you may not be aware of, or that she has had some insecurities about your relationship for a while.  If you want to maintain the friendship, I would try writing a letter to your friend, explaining how much you value her and that you are sorry that she is hurt and would like to mend the relationship.  You still have a good amount of time until your wedding, maybe this will all blow over by then.  Good luck!

Post # 4
Member
1106 posts
Bumble bee

What?!?! That makes no sense.. at all. It seems like maybe this girl is not only upset she wasnt moh but maybe a bit jealous of your engagement. I agree, if you want to keep any sort of relationship maybe you should try a letter.. if you dont, then luckily she pulled herself out before you had to ask her to leave.

Post # 5
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3620 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

The same thing happened to me – friend of 17 years, asked her to be my MOH (she declined that but said she’d be a BM, should have been my first red flag)… EMAILED me to say she had some furniture she needed to buy for her new apt, but thanks for including her.

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