(Closed) Anger and Abandonment Issues – NWR – LONG!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

You can’t change what has happened to you in the past.

What is happening between your stepdad, your mother and their son is their business.

As difficult as it is to watch because of your own history, the only thing you can do is to continue to  be a presence in your brother’s life.

Despite the fact that he was upset one evening at your home, there is no reason to stop contact with your brother. On the contrary, he needs to know that all the adults in his life will not leave him as his Dad has done. He may need the security of sleeping at home rather than staying over with his sister right now.

Keep visiting and spend time with him.

 

Post # 5
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46160 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It will pass. He’s just a little guy and very confused and hurt right now.

Post # 6
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4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i’m so sorry! i think you would benefit greatly from some counseling. it might be helpful for your brother too if your mom is open to it. keep visiting him and spending time with him. kids are a lot more resilient than we sometimes think.

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