Post # 1
so I’ve had baby fever since before I got married but me and my husband agreed to wait till our 1 year wedding anniversary well everything keeps hinting that he’s gonna bump it back and make it longer to waitso I have been really flustered and upset well I’m getting ready to go2/2 baby showers in the morning and just being in the baby section looking at baby stuff and diapers got me so aggressive I was snapping at everyone him my brother and my mom and I felt really badbut it just hurts knowing that we’re getting ready to move in with my mom and dad to save money for a house and it would be a minimum of 2 years before we can start trying unless he pushes it back again
Post # 3
I feel you hun. We are coming up a on one year and arnt any closer to TTCing. We are hopeing to have a house within a year then a year after that start trying sigh. Two cousins of mine are pregnant. And another one just had a baby last month. We are going to a BBQ with them today. I know its gonna be so hard for me to be all around these people today. Between that and I know someone is gonna ask when we are gonna have kids today.
Post # 4
I am with you on this! Everyone I know has a kid or is pregnant and my husband just isn’t THERE yet! And I am getting antsy!
Post # 5
I can semi-relate. We are trying, but this is our fourth cycle, and I really don’t see it happening this month, either. Plus, my husband is going to be working two weeks on, one week in for the next 9 weeks–which completely interfers with TTC. Everywhere I go, there are HUGELY pregnant women looking all adorable and cute. Or they have newborn babies. Or someone is announcing their pregnancy on Facebook.
It totally and completely sucks. I hope that things work out for you and that it happens for you sooner rather than later, but just so you know, once you start trying…it’s stressful on this side, too.
Post # 6
I am soooooooo on this boat! I can’t walk through baby sections or be around people with babies without wanting to burst into tears. We are about to hit our 1st anniversary and we decided before getting married we wanted to wait a year mostly because he has a daughter and we wanted to have time for all of us to adjust. I was ready a few months ago aaaaaand its been really difficult! I want a baby but we need to move before we can have one because our house is tiny and we want to hit some fitness goals first. I feel like I’ve hit a brick wall with my weight loss. It frustrates me to have sex cause I want a baby out of the deal not just sex. It frustrates me that we haven’t moved yet because I want to start trying as soon as we hit a year… UGH!!!! I want to scream or cry mostly cry.
Post # 7
You just got married and you’re going to move into your parents’ house? Yikes! That would make me pretty unhappy.
What’s wrong with renting?
Post # 8
@merrygrl: we aren’t married yet, but I have been waiting for two years already, and we’ve agreed on March next year…….BUT I think FI just said that to keep me quiet for now, I don’t think he’s being serious about it. I keep switching between “we can afford this, no we can’t, yes we can, no we can’t”….what am I going to do??? We found out a close friend is pregnant again, I burst into tears when I heard and I feel like a horrible human for being so sad about such an exciting time for them! He doesn’t have a great income, and he’s happy to live at his mums house for ever and ever while we save for a house – IM NOT. What do I do? I can’t keep living like this…