angered by pregnant people and babies

posted 3 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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1030 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I feel you hun. We are coming up a on one year and arnt any closer to TTCing. We are hopeing to have a house within a year then a year after that start trying sigh. Two cousins of mine are pregnant. And another one just had a baby last month. We are going to a BBQ with them today. I know its gonna be so hard for me to be all around these people today. Between that and I know someone is gonna ask when we are gonna have kids today. 

Post # 4
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1926 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I am with you on this! Everyone I know has a kid or is pregnant and my husband just isn’t THERE yet! And I am getting antsy! 

Post # 5
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500 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I can semi-relate. We are trying, but this is our fourth cycle, and I really don’t see it happening this month, either. Plus, my husband is going to be working two weeks on, one week in for the next 9 weeks–which completely interfers with TTC. Everywhere I go, there are HUGELY pregnant women looking all adorable and cute. Or they have newborn babies. Or someone is announcing their pregnancy on Facebook. 

It totally and completely sucks. I hope that things work out for you and that it happens for you sooner rather than later, but just so you know, once you start trying…it’s stressful on this side, too.

Post # 6
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28 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I am soooooooo on this boat! I can’t walk through baby sections or be around people with babies without wanting to burst into tears. We are about to hit our 1st anniversary and we decided before getting married we wanted to wait a year mostly because he has a daughter and we wanted to have time for all of us to adjust. I was ready a few months ago aaaaaand its been really difficult! I want a baby but we need to move before we can have one because our house is tiny and we want to hit some fitness goals first. I feel like I’ve hit a brick wall with my weight loss. It frustrates me to have sex cause I want a baby out of the deal not just sex. It frustrates me that we haven’t moved yet because I want to start trying as soon as we hit a year… UGH!!!! I want to scream or cry mostly cry.

Post # 7
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1340 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

You just got married and you’re going to move into your parents’ house? Yikes! That would make me pretty unhappy.

What’s wrong with renting?

Post # 8
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564 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@merrygrl:  we aren’t married yet, but I have been waiting for two years already, and we’ve agreed on March next year…….BUT I think FI just said that to keep me quiet for now, I don’t think he’s being serious about it. I keep switching between “we can afford this, no we can’t, yes we can, no we can’t”….what am I going to do??? We found out a close friend is pregnant again, I burst into tears when I heard and I feel like a horrible human for being so sad about such an exciting time for them! He doesn’t have a great income, and he’s happy to live at his mums house for ever and ever while we save for a house – IM NOT. What do I do? I can’t keep living like this…

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