(Closed) Angry – He Doesn’t Get It!! (Vent)

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am sorry you are so upset! You need to sit him down and explain how important this is to you. Hopefully, he’ll understand. The only thing I can think of as a positive is that maybe he is planning to fly out in secret as a surprise for Christas for you?

Post # 5
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1566 posts
Bumble bee

That sucks! I wouldn’t talk to him until you’re calm. Holiday plans are a huge issue even without the added complications of work, so you’re not the only one stressing about this. I think every couple needs to figure out a long-term plan that works for them. Ideally, you would do this well in advance of the holidays. It sounds like you kept asking him about work hours but didn’t plan out a schedule.

Regarding this year, I see his point in not wanting to fly after working a lot. How many days would he have off besides Christmas? Is it really long enough to take a trip, have time with your family, get back, and rest up before work? If so, I hope you can convince him to do this for you. And hopefully, starting next year, you guys will have a standing agreement on which holidays are spent where so this doesn’t happen again.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

*hugs* I totally, totally understand you on this. I think you need to calm down first, then explain to him how much it means to you that he’s there with you on Christmas Day. It’s absolutely breaking my heart that Mr. KM won’t be there, but there’s no way he can just up and leave his family since it’ll be our last Christmas not married. We need to spend it with our respective families and I’m having a really hard time with it. If there were any way at ALL for us to spend it together, I would do it, and I think you should tell him how you feel (calmly!)

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