(Closed) angry on xmas eve and trapped on a bus

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

How long are you going to be back home?  I understand that you want him with you but he probably is just thinking about practicality that he doesn’t get to see his friend much and this is a good opportunity.  He is spending tomorrow with you and the families tomorrow correct?

Post # 5
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

If you are going to meet his GF, why can’t all four of you go out together?

Post # 7
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Yeah that sort of sucks.  I know it’s tough but I would try not to be mad at him.  I know you love spending time with your family but he might not.  He will still be with them tomorrow on Christmas.

Post # 9
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sure he will love your family eventually!  It just takes time.

Post # 10
Member
501 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Try not to be upset. He just wants to see a friend for a few hours and then he’ll be back to spend time with you and your family.

Post # 12
Member
809 posts
Busy bee

I know it is easier said than done but do try not to be mad. Let him have his night, you get him the rest of the trip. Sometimes my bf does something that makes me unreasonably angry, like I know I shouldn’t be mad about it but I am, so I know where you’re coming from. However, if your bf goes off to his friends house every night rather than spending it with you and your family, you have a right to be angry. Maybe just talk to him and make sure he knows that you expect him to be with you on the holidays and that it may not be a big deal for him but it is for you.

Post # 13
Member
365 posts
Helper bee

Don’t get upset on Christmas Eve.  It’s his Christmas too.  At least you’ll get to spend all day with him tomorrow and every other day.  Don’t let it spoil it for you 🙂

Have a really happy one.  *lots of hugs*

Post # 15
Member
2196 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Am I the only one who saw “his new GF” and got a bit confused?  I thought perhaps I was reading about the first polyamorist I’ve ever seen on the bee. Heh.  

Merry Christmas everyone.

Post # 16
Member
365 posts
Helper bee

@flyinpig3: Give him a big kiss and make his Christmas for him! ;D

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