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I think they might welcome your offer to walk their dog with yours. It can't hurt to ask, though they may say no, and you'll be back to square one. Poor puppy!
That is so sad :( I like your idea of asking if you can walk their dog. Since she's pregnant and already has 2 kids she probably wouldn't think anything of it. I'm sure you'll word it accordingly. If you notice things getting worse I definitely think you have the right to say something to them and/or call your local animal protective services. Especially since you said you live in Florida. Geez, I live in Ohio where our summers get HOT and I can't imagine leaving a dog in a kennel all day long here, let alone Florida. Good luck with this. Hopefully you can be an example for this family.
I agree with EAQ, call your local humane society. Let them be the ones to evaluate if the dog is neglected. Chances are, they just need a reminder that their dog needs to have attention and not be left out in the sun without some shade. Does the dog have fresh water at all times?
I say you offer to walk the dog. If they agree, then it would give you a better chance to evaluate the situation. If they have a backyard, there's no reason for this dog to always be locked up in the kennel, so I would call animal control and report that. Think about it, if it were a child you would call CPS (child protective services), right? I'm also a huge pet lover, so it really breaks my heart to hear about people doing such things.
How sad :( I would definitely call an animal organization and see what they say, if nothing happens, then I would offer to walk the dog. I just wouldn't want the family to have the defense of oh, he gets walks when for the 23.5 other hours of the day he is in a cage. Good luck!
how sad! even if it has a bowl of water, it is important to remember that dogs cannot sweat to cool themselves down and can die from overheating. Is this family from the South? Do you think they realize this?
while you don't want to start a neighborhood feud, I'm sure you'd feel horrible if the dog did die. You can also look for signs of it overheating. Your vet should inform you, but I think you can generally tell by their panting and if they are getting frothy around the mouth. Why do these people even GET dogs? ugh
I know! Alright, you've all helped me build up the courage to go over and ask. As soon as this monster storm rolls over and there is a break in the rain, I'm going to take the now drenched puppy out for a walk. If the refuse, then I might be inclined to ask the animal shelter what the next course of action is. Some people don't deserve to have pets.
Another option is to let them know that your pooch sometimes gets lonely and would it be ok if the pooches romped in your backyard occassionally. Then the pups could play whenever you wanted. We do this with our neighbor's dog all the time (even if both of our dogs are totally pampered pooches).
call a local animal rescue, human society, and/or notify the police if you have to!!!! This is animal abuse. Instead of wedding favors, my fiance and I are donating to a local animal rescue group. Who needs another picture frame or wine top when you can help a deserving animal???
I say you contact animal control or a local shelter and explain to them how they are treating this dog. I assume they will go over there themselves and check out the dog's living conditions, and they should do what is best for the dog (which seems to me like the dog should be taken away from its current owners). If that doesn't work, you can always go over there and tell the neighbors you saw the animal control officer at the house earlier and see if there is anything you can do to help with the situation they are in. Sounds to me like they don't deserve this dog and another family could treat him much better!
I do have an update. A few days ago I packed up some of cupcakes as kind gesture to ease the possible tension of the conversation and went next door. Our neighbors have a partial glass door so I was able to see through it half way up the walk and was happy to see the Mrs. walking by. I was very unhappy when after two doorbell rings no one came to greet me. There's no doubt she was home. Rude, huh? Back home I went a little unnerved and ready to call the shelter. Unfortunately I missed the business hours of the shelter. Yesterday I tried again...this time with no sweet gestures...I was mad.
Yesterday we had some really bad thunderstorms. My dogs are not normally afraid of thunderstorms and these ones were bad enough to send mine under the table. I ventured outside to see if the neighbor dog was outstide and to my unfortunate speculation, he was, barking loudly and looking completely scared. I waited for the rain and lightning to subside a bit then went over. This time I saw the Mrs. and her two sons sitting on the couch watching T.V. I don't know how they could have enjoyed their show as the dog was barking so loudly right outside their backdoor. This time she answered. I asked if "Max" could come over and play with my dogs and she said, "Sure." Closed the door and left me to go around back and take him back to my house by myself. This very brief conversation and obvious lack of concern for the animal made me even angrier. When I got to the kennel and found an empty water bowl, empty food dish, no cushion or blanket to lay on and droppings in the kennel and I nearly flipped my lid. Looking back I should have gone right back up to the door and asked her about it. The sweet little dog was so happy to get out and play. He met my dogs and they played in my backyard for hours. He drank nearly the entire bowl of water I set out for the three of them and a whole serving of food. I wanted to keep him forever, but had to take him back. When I attempted to put him in his kennel, he pulled on his leash, rolled onto his back and whined and whined. It's not fair and not right.
I missed the shelter again today, but tomorrow first thing, they will be hearing from me. I would gladly adopt the sweet thing if I didn't have two already, one being a lab puppy...ugh. She looks like she's about to have another baby in a month or so, what are they doing with a dog? I'll be sure to let you know how the shelter visit goes.
it's so sad. I know it's very tough to try to tell some one that they can't care for their animal but you are doing the right thing!!
We got our dog from a shelter. I'll admit she is not the best dog in the world , she has a mind of her own. But (knock on wood) she's not aggressive , never snippy and loves ot play with other dogs, though she does like to drag smaller dogs by the ears! (we're working on that!!!) we are "the last resort" according to our county's ACC , as she had 3 prior family's that "couldn't handle her" it's taken almost a year for us to really earn her trust. I'm feeling horriable now because we're trying on getting her use to the beach , she's very scared of the water. She loves swimming from the back of the boat but the waves freak her out.
Good luck sweetie , and you are doing the right thing!! we had to call on some people last year for keeping their dog outside in the cold. It was very hard but we asked for updated from the shelter and the dog found a loving home very quickly.
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This may seem like an odd post to put on the Bee, but I thought it fit well under the newly wed category. Our new neighbors moved in about 2 months ago and are very nice people. Husband, pregnant wife, two boys and one very, very neglegected dog. We share a fence and I peeked through one afternoon to see the little guy who kept barking at me. I wasn't annoyed by it, I know he's new. I was shocked when I saw the medium sized dog in a kennel that was about 5 foot tall, by 3 feet wide a 4 feet long. Okay...I thought, they're probably still getting things unpacked inside, no big deal. I have two dogs of my own and completely understand the need to get them out of the house sometimes.
Fast-forward two months. The poor little guy stays in that kennel day in and day out. I'm pretty sure they take him inside at night...only to be put into another kennel I'm guessing. I have yet to see the dog walked or played with. I'm home enough during the day to notice, as is the other neighbor that shares the opposite fence. (Yes...there is housewife gossip on our street.) Their kids are well old enough to play with and walk the dog. I live in Florida where it's very hot and humid, that dog sits under the hot sun all day!
There's my grip and here's my question. Do I say anything? Or at least, would it be offensive if I asked to walk their dog with mine on their daily walks? I just feel so bad for it. I'm sure they feed it and give it water because I've checked. But this is pure neglect and as an avide animal lover, I can't idly sit by and watch it happen! Any thoughts?