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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    I just got an invite in the mail for a bridal shower that's going to have an Oaks theme. For all you bees out there that don't know what the Oaks are... it's the horse race in Kentucky that takes place the day before the Derby. 

    Since said bride is getting married the day before Derby (can you say HANGOVER for that weekend??) it is fitting that they would do this for her shower.

    Now my problem?

    1. I don't want to spend lots of moolah on a hat 

    2. The are having a contest for who wears the best hat

    3. I am very competitive

     

    So I need something original, and that won't break the bank. I'm going to surf the net, but I thought I'd ask ideas from you ladies as well!

     

     
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    MissHoneyBun       Dallas, TX

    Ahhh Kentucky. Home of pretty horses and fast women. :)

     
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    Amaryllis    July 2, 2011  

    Try TJ Maxx and Marshalls. They have a bunch for great price points, and you can definitely hit up a craft store to give it a special touch.

    What kind of look are you going for?

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    Awesome!!!

    I would love to go to that bridal shower :-)

    Here is a link to a site where I get all my hats from: http://www.grannysbridal.com/Shoppe/pc/Victorian-c973.htm

     
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    sparkle    November 2009  

    What if you do a fascinator? They're in style now so you might be able to find a cute one that's not too expensive at an accessories store? Or try Etsy?

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @Amaryllis: Ummm, pretty but with a twist? I've seen some crazy hats and I don't want to go into that much detail, but I want something unique as well.

    @MissHoneyBun: I think you have that bass ackwards ;)

     
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    MissHoneyBun       Dallas, TX

    @Mrs.tobe: nuh uh girl. That's what they told me! :D

     
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    melisslp    July 3, 2010   St. Louis, MO

    How fun!  Check out the Derby hats on eBay.  Or, possibly buy a hat then decorate it with feathers, etc. from Michael's.  Michael's always has coupons, so if you have time, buy things gradually to decorate your hat.  Good Luck!!

     
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    Amaryllis    July 2, 2011  

    OK, so I guess that rules these out...

     

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    How fun!! I love hats.

    @Amaryllis:Wow!! Some of those are very interesting lol.

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    i love this idea!!!  I would love to go to that shower.

     
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    irishbride2be    November 5, 2011  

    haha i so agree I want to come too!! SO fun.

    How about Ebay, or the flea market, or craft show? Again you can still go to Michaels/JoAnns and give it your own flair. Esp with the bride's colors of her wedding or theme?

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    You know that I am sitting here turning green with envy, you know how much I love hats.

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    Sorry ladies, I didn't mean to abandon my thread. FI came home suggesting a ride on the motorcycle and grabbing a bite to eat since it was 75 and sunny here. I had to oblige Wink

    @noritake22: Thanks for the site! I'll have to search it a bit more...

    @Amaryllis: Oh girl... I've seen my fair share of insane Derby hats. lol

    @melisslp:@irishbride2be: I am def going to check out ebay.

    @tksjewelry:I've been making you turn green a lot lately...heh heh heh

     

    Oh did I mention this shower is April 10th?! So not far away at all!

     
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    NotYourTypicalBride    December 3, 2010   South Florida/Semi-destination wedding in Key Largo

    How about a local thrift store or consignment shop?  I would guess lots of people donate or consign their previously worn Derby hats in Kentucky??

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @NotYourTypicalBride: Actually, you'd be surprised how few there are :(

     
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    NotYourTypicalBride    December 3, 2010   South Florida/Semi-destination wedding in Key Largo

    @Mrs.tobe: That's a shame... I had visions of entering a thrift store and finding racks of fun hats to try on. :(  In that case, etsy comes to mind. I did a quick search for "derby hat" and there are some fun ones for $25-$30. Or maybe etsy can provide some inspiration and you can decorate your own!?

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @NotYourTypicalBride: I know, I wish our thrift stores were like that! I'm thinking I might have to decorate my own, after I find some inspiration... Not sure how THAT will turn out! lol

     
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    In the media    June 29, 2013   Indiana, but wedding in St. Louis

    Check resale shops. They shoud definitely have some (and there's got to be a way to clean them before you wear it).---oh, just read that that would be a not good idea.

    I guess go where older ladies shop. They LOVE their hats!

     
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    julies1949      

    The last time I needed a hat was for an outdoor wedding. I have a very large head so even buying a hat is not easy.

    Eventually I found a wide brimmed black hat and decorated it myself with some black tulle, a black ribbon with tiny white polka dots and a small beaded embellishment I found at the fabric store.

    I had the nicest hat there if I do say so myself.

    Do you like this look?

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    alli    September 6, 2008   Minnesota

    Have you checked on etsy?  I love yellow and thought this one was pretty cute, not sure how winning it would be...

    Just type in derby hat, sounds like a great shower!

    http://www.etsy.com/listing/69134758/sunshine-eco-friendly-bright-yellow-sun?ref=sr_gallery_34&ga_search_type=all&ga_includes%5B0%5D=tags&ga_search_query=kentucky+derby+hats&ga_page=4&ga_facet=

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @julies1949:I think I'm going to try and go with something more floral... I did remember that afriend of mine made one last year. I might either borrow hers or get her to help me make one.

    The dat you made sounds really nice! I definitely want a wide brimmed hat, I have a big head too. :/

    This was my friend's hat from last year:Annnndddd now I need a hat..... :  wedding 29916 384015417879 511517879 3958932 6256177 NAnnnndddd now I need a hat..... :  wedding 29916 384015432879 511517879 3958934 4240474 N

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    What do you guys think of the hat above??? Should I go with that, or DIY one?

     
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    Dragonsus    December 19, 2009   Lexington KY

    Wear your friend's hat!! it's lovely and definitely doesn't look like something you just picked up from TJMAX.  Failing that - PM me.  I work in the costume department for UK and have several fabulous hats at my disposal.

     
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    meladoug    July 22, 2011  

    I'm not a huge fan of your friend's hat, to be honest (just my opinion though!  I'm more of a pink hat person).  I bet you could DIY something that's super cute, if you decide to go that route!

    I'm a Kentucky gal myself.  If you are near Lexington or Louisville you could pop into Dillards and check out all the hats that are probably coming in... last year there were lots for under $30! :)  I also think ebay would be a great place to look.  A couple of Louisville consignment shops also sell Derby hats, I think. 

    Sounds like a really fun shower!!   

     
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    SandAndSea    April 15, 2012   orange

    DIY! you can add some fun personal touches of your own. What about something like this? they would be pretty simple to make

    Annnndddd now I need a hat..... :  wedding Hat Annnndddd now I need a hat..... :  wedding Hat2

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    The hat my friend did looks a LOT better when it's on a head, but I didn't want to put apicture of her up on here. ;)

     @Dragonsus:Ohhhh, I'm going ot have to send you a PM! Do you have pictures? That would be SO awesome!

    @meladoug: I'm just not sure I'll be able to make it to Louisville before then. I'm not far, but my schedule is always crazy. :(

    @SandAndSea: I really like the second one!

    Glad to see some more KY gals on here!

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    Okay...so this is what my friend's hat looks like on.I wanted to post this last night but I was already at work :(

    I found a hat on ebay that I like, but honestly can't see myself spending 39 bucks on it, then 10.99 in shipping costs.

    Annnndddd now I need a hat..... :  wedding 28717 385723987879 511517879 3996113 3462423 N

     

     
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    SandAndSea    April 15, 2012   orange

    @Mrs.tobe: oh wow, it looks completely different on. It's so much cuter! You should wear it with a similar dress but in hot pink or red! va va voom!

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    I love that hat, shoot I love all big hats.  Check out Garden Ridge and see if they have the spring hats in.  Now I may have to add some feathers to mine.

     
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    jaguar    June 11, 2011  

    We're having hats at my shower on Sunday too!

    If you don't want to spend a lot on a hat, try the fascinator/fancy headband route. That always works. :)

     
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    Mrs.tobe    September 30, 2011   the middle of there

    @tksjewelry: I'm going to try and call Garden Ridge, but not sure when I'll be able to get up there. It might end up being too much trouble to try to DIY one. But I'll put in some sort of effort ;)

    I love her hat too.... and she gave me another one that's white with a black ribbon around the base, black feathers, and a huge hot pink flower. It also has a bigger brim.

    Now ANOTHER choice.

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    Go with one of hers, those are so cute.  I thought you had to make one and you wanted one like hers, oops, should have read that better.  It is your shower and the only thing you should be worried about is showing up and what shoes to wear with your dress.  Now go and have fun (and a few mimosas)

     

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