(Closed) Annoyed…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@weeonebride: What a dick!  I would confront that guy!  Tell him to stop stalking you or have your FI do it. It reflects poorly on you and your FI.  That guy is NO FRIEND.  He is jealous or something.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

WHOA.

There is a crazy “friend” on the loose in a bar near you! Oh wait…he’s standing 10 feet away from you and doesn’t say hi before snapping your photo??? craaaaazy.

This is just me, but if one of my FI’s “friends” did this, I would fully expect FI to say something to him about how inappropriate that is. It’s just uncalled for.

Post # 6
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84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Seriously? Sounds like he might be a tad bit jealous that his friend has a girl and hes stuck taking pictures like a creep of someone in the bar? creeper.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I have to agree with the two above posters.  

Of course, I can sooo relate to really disliking (dare I say ‘hating’) a friend of your FI’s.  

my FI has a friend, we’ll call him ‘D’ (hehehehehe, I’m evil, though his name DOES start with ‘d’) who came to three game nights. We play Dungeons & Dragons and host the game nights.  Well, the first night was good.  The second, wasn’t the greatest, but nothing I didn’t mind too much.  The third, he pissed me off to where I was ready to say “I’m out” (of the game) and leave.  Which would’ve had my FI ending the game then and there.  and who knows WHAT else.

I was so upset and angry, it took DAYS for my FI to calm me down, which isn’t the norm for us.  We agreed to NOT invite him over to ANY games and I said I didn’t want him back AT ALL.  My FI agreed.

You should definitely talk to your FI about how it makes you feel and come to an agreement on it.  Especially if this guy might be invited to the wedding or ANY social event you two have!!!

 

so sooooo sorry you’ve gotta deal with such a jerk!!!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

CREEPY…

I would definitely hope your FI would talk to him and tell him that:

1) That was wildly inappropriate, and, might I reiterate, CREEPY.

2) There is nothing wrong with going out and having fun with your friends.

and 3) If he sees you in another ensemble he thinks is too risque then he should call the fashion police and let them handle it instead of secretively taking pictures like a CREEPER!

Hopefully the people he’s been ranting to about you having your FI brainwashed realize he’s a loon and are backing away slowly.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@weeonebride: ugh, yeah, I know how that is.  The knowing someone for years on end and him not wanting to say or do anything.  My quandary was it was my FI towards a female friend he’d known for countless years and has been a problem since we’ve been together.  (WHY are men so naive???) 

I say if your FI doesn’t do anything, do it yourself!  of course, I’m also the one who enjoys a good fight and I don’t mind taking on a person if I know them, lol.  Oh, heck, I’d do it even if I didn’t… but it would have to be in person, though.  The internet isn’t good for arguments, hehehehehe.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

@weeonebride: Okay, then he needs to be blunt, and say, “Hey, this is my future wife you’re being an ass about, and I don’t appreciate it. If you give a crap about our friendship at all, you won’t put us in this position again. Smarten up!”

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@linguo42: <3  soooo LOVE that! 

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

This is mega creepy and just plain strange! I would totally get your FI speak to him or speak to him yourself, because why on earth should you be worrying about whether this guy is gonna be hanging around watching you?IMHO just bang out of order!!!

x

Post # 14
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798 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

me thinks your husbands friend might have some feelings for you….sounds like something a 14 year old with a crush would do.

 

 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Your FI needs to stand up for you.  You’re not just his FI, you’re the mother of his two children.  He needs to man up and tell his buddy that shit aint gonna fly. 

I’d probably threaten the buddy with a restraining order since he’s clearly stalking you. 😉

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