Post # 1
My fiance won’t cut his hair before the wedding. I know this is SO STUPID but I have this photo of us from a friend’s wedding a couple years ago, all dressed up and I just love how his hair looks in it. I always thought he’d cut his hair back to that way, and he kind of always said he probably would, but now I don’t think he is. It’s so shallow and petty and I’m sure I’ll get over it but why is he making a big deal of it? And why am I?!
I think I am also mad at myself for caring. Bleh.
Post # 3
@hartmamp: I wish I had that problem! My FH shaves his head lol.
Post # 4
I can understand being annoyed by that. Its an important day and you want the both of you to look your best for all of your guests and for the wedding photos. I would be annoyed too. Fortunately, my SO is very anal about his hair. He gets it cut EVERY week, lol. Maybe if you really explain to him why its important to you he’ll come around. I find that bribes works really well too when SO doesn’t want to do something 🙂
Post # 5
Man… I’d be annoyed too! I mean, it’s not “make a big deal” territory, but it’s perfectly acceptable to feel disappointed. Lucky for me, my SO is NOT particular about his hair. He doesn’t even notice he needs a hair cut but if I mention it’s getting shaggy, he goes the very next day to get it trimmed! 🙂
Post # 6
Well, look at it in this way: It’s his wedding too so he can decide how he wants to look as well.
Post # 7
Darling Husband wanted to cut his hair for the wedding, but since he didn’t care and I cared, he let me dictate its length lol
Post # 8
@hartmamp: wow, I started this exact thread months ago about my Fiance not cutting his hair. I love love love when my Fiance has short hair, he looks so damn sexy.
I stopped bugging him to cut it. One day out of the blue, Fiance surprised me with a haircut. Good luck!!!!!
Post # 9
@hartmamp: I get annoyed when my Fiance gets all scruffy. He has a 5 o’clock shadow by noon, lol. It’s really not his fault but I hate it. He was teasing me the other day and saying he’d leave his awful facial hair for our wedding. I think by the horrified expression on my face he realized it was a good idea to confess he was kidding.
I totally understand where you’re coming from. You have a picture in your head for how you want everything to look – even him – and it sucks when things don’t work out. Maybe he is also kidding and just wants to surprise you! I told my Fiance I’m not kissing him if I’m going to cut my face on his face, lol.
Oddly I actually like how he looks with his hair longer, and he prefers it short (so we are in opposite boats that way). He’s very easy going and generally doesn’t care much so he lets me have my way 🙂
Post # 10
I bet you he’ll cut it. Just to make you happy. Just have faith!