- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
I have no idea why this is bothering me so much, but I have to vent somewhere!
A friend and I were discussing creeping out ex’s on facebook. Of course, after that conversation, I had to creep my ex and low and behold, he has a wide open profile so I can see everything posted.
Apparently, a random girl had shown up on his doorstep, beaten badly by her stepfather and so my ex had taken it upon himself to help her which is great. Then his “gangster” friends posted comments under like “where does this f**cker live, let’s kick his ass” etc.
My ex said something to the effect of “guys, lets be mature about this, last time I dealt with a guy beating on a woman, I regret what I did.”
My problem with his comment is that HE WAS PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE TOWARDS ME. To the point of bruising, ripping clothes, etc.
I think it bothers me so much because he’s trying to look like a hero here, when he’s a friggen abuser himself. I’ve gone to counselling about it, but it’s still such a sore spot with me. Maybe he’s changed, I haven’t seen him in over 7 years, but it’s bugging me so much and I just had to vent it out. Thanks!