Annoyed EX is hanging with my friends

posted 3 years ago in Christian
Post # 3
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7195 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@AussieSummer:  Is your church big enough that you can pretty well avoid him? Because if not, then I think you need to go looking for a new church.

But I’m assuming the church is big enough. In my church I’ve seen a few couples break up and stay in the church.

I feel like what you need is a few good female friends who will stand by you. So that if your ex turns up at an event, it doesn’t matter, because you can ignore him and talk to them. I think you said before that most of your close friends are travelling around now, so I realise this might be hard.

Post # 4
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771 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@AussieSummer:  are you guys recently over? Maybe he is hanging out with them knowing you may be there too? That’s my first thought. Is there a chance for reconciliation? If not, it’s awkward but you do not need to move on to new friends. Just avoid certain activities if you do not want to be around him. If you host things its easy to not have him on the guest list etc…

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