Annoyed with FIL

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

That is strange. Do you think he wanted to remind you that it was the girl’s birthday so you could wish her the same? 

Post # 4
689 posts
Busy bee

I have an aunt that is kind of oblivious to family drama sometimes…that is something she would totally do. Maybe it’s his way of trying to start a conversation?

Post # 5
889 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@krstino1012:  did he create that group just for this one text? Otherwise maybe he just didn’t wanna write two texts for his daughter and SIL. I have groups where even if I’M Not available for meeting my two friends will still discuss their meeting in that group instead of between the two of them.

If he created it just for that purpose my first idea also was that he maybe wanted to gently remind you? I’d also reply with some nice congratulations, like “happy birthday and all the best, hope to see you soon”. 

If you’re saying you’d like to improve the relationship I don’t see why this would bother you and why you wouldn’t reply? Even if you had never met her i’d still send her greetings for her bday. 

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