(Closed) Annoying cousin ..

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Blushing bee

ooooo well I wouldnt worry too much in regards to your ring, but announcing it at the end of your engagement dinner? at her wedding u should announce that you re preggers…

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

LOL, I have to admit that while reading your post, I was thinking what Socal Bride said Laughing. If it’s any consolation think about it this way, since their wedding is first you have the chance to change things at your wedding for the better if you notice stuff you did not like about theirs.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I don’t think you have anything to worried about.  I think people will assume SHE’S pregnant and it’s a shotgun wedding.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Yeah the dinner thing was like way out of line in my opinion. Wow.

But man what’s up with the copy cat cousins on this board?? lol thank god my cousins are either little, or already married haha

They’re showing off in my opinion. And apparently the apple didn’t fall far from the tree if her moms apart of it. And I’m going to assume your mom knows this since she didn’t disagree with you but just said to ignore it.

Shows off need an audience. So ignore them.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Five months and they don’t even know what country they want to have it in? I doubt you have much to worry about…do they expect their guests to be able to fly out of country for a wedding on relatively short notice right before the holidays?

I find it really rude that they felt the need to announce their engagement at YOUR party!

I wouldn’t worry about the ring show! It makes them sound a bit materialistic and self absorbed.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee

yeah I would just announce it and then like the next day be like O sorry it was a false test, but since ur wedding is after hers she could do something too… I say make your wedding better than hers… like BY FAR!

Post # 10
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Newbee

Plan your wedding to be the happiest day of your life. Dont’ let her  steal your thunder! She’ll look like an idiot when people realize that she’s following your every move!

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Oh I thought of this last night…

Don’t give her any information about your wedding that you don’t absolutely have too.

Because given the recent events I wouldn’t want to give her the chance to copy those too and then rush to do it before you.

Lie if you have too….if she asks what colors you’re doing maybe keep it on the same side of the spectrum but not the flat out truth.

Like if you’re doing blue say purple, if you’re doing red say orange. etc.

Or just don’t tell her at all and say it’s going to be a surprise. Oh that’ll piss her off even more hahaha!! Then she can’t copy you if she doesn’t know. 🙂 🙂

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

If they still have not picked a location with about 4 months to go, and they plan on getting married at somewhere nice- good luck!   They sound like people that will want to put on a big production, and that cannot be done on short notice.   The beginning of December is also a time when many places get booked for holiday events.  You have nothing to worry about.

Post # 13
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Newbee

agree with people who said don’t share ANY plans with her…so she can’t steal them!!

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