- 5 years ago
Ok, since this is pretty specific i wanted to make this anon in case FI’s ex uses WB haha
This girl has been ridiculous to my FI, and while I have never met her, I really dislike her because of the things she’s done. My FI broke up with her (they dated for a little over a year) after he drove over an hour to see her, and she (while on the phone with him since he was waiting for her to confirm a spot to meet) completely blew him off and decided she didn’t want to meet up with him that day. He told me that was the last straw for him being treated so badly by her, and he basically broke it off on the phone and hung up on her. He told me he felt like they had been “breaking up” for months before then, and all he felt was relief.
Well, lo and behold the boy meets me about two weeks later, we immediately just click and start dating. She used one of their mutual friends facebooks to write horrible things about how he is terrible at sex, etc all over his wall. He had made a new facebook because she knew the password of his origional one and changed it- taking over HIS facebook for years! She would message him that she was driving by his house or his friends house, saw us out shopping, etc. Really creepy stuff.
FI and I have been dating for almost 3 years now, and still up to this week I have seen his old facebook popping up on “people I may know”. We have both tried multiple times to get facebook to shut down the page, but it would never work, which just told me that she must know his security questions or something and was keeping the page active. Today I noticed it was finally GONE. So I searched for it and it’s been deleted! I went to her page and saw that we no longer have many mutual friends! (She must have deleted them!)
I am thinking she must have seen that we got engaged just recently and finally gotten over her immaturity or something, and decided to distance herself from our mutual friends and FI.
I know she has only acted like such a b*tch because she realizes how badly she screwed up. He is an absolutely amazing, ridiculously good looking, hard working man who would totally take a bullet for those he cares about and has never once raised his voice at me. Her (now) FI (I know I am such a jerk for saying this)- could stand to lose a couple hundred pounds and has a dead end job, and she herself has a min wage job…. she’s gotta be regretting her bad decisions!
sorry for sounding like a big jerk, i’ve just been so tired of this chick harassing my FI, and it looks like either someone talked her into being sensible or she decided on her own that it was time to grow up!