(Closed) Anonymous Poll! Do YOU watch porn?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you watch porn?
    Yes, but only a couple times a year. : (11 votes)
    4 %
    Yes, a few times a year. : (31 votes)
    10 %
    Yes, every month or so. : (40 votes)
    13 %
    Yes, every couple weeks. : (46 votes)
    15 %
    Yes, every week. : (25 votes)
    8 %
    Yes, several times a week. : (32 votes)
    11 %
    Yes, but only with SO. : (5 votes)
    2 %
    Yes, but usually only with SO. : (12 votes)
    4 %
    I read erotica but do not watch porn. : (12 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    521 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014 - Italiano's Humble

    It only gives one option to choose from 🙂

    Post # 4
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    9062 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Edit: Just voted… can only vote for one option.

    Post # 5
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    5 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    It’s nice to see porn having a place in your sex lives, especially if its not every day. Everything in moderation and all that.

    I voted for the erotica, it doesn’t get enough attention, even with all the play 50 shades got.

    Post # 6
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    6360 posts
    Bee Keeper

    We don’t watch porn, at all.

    I don’t like the effect the studies show it has on the male brain over time, FI is not interested anyway so he’s happy to oblige me on that (he feels he explored what there was to see in the porn world when he was a teen and he’s done) and I am also disinterested in seeing it. I guess pretty similarly to FI, when I was younger I saw what there was to see and then my curiosity was satisfied so I was done (similar to gore pictures. I never need to see another severed head again).

    I feel like I’m in the minority on the bee on this, but we’re really happy with our porn-free lifestyle.

    Post # 7
    Member
    648 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @joya_aspera:  I second all of this. My SO and I are the same way.

    Post # 8
    Member
    5109 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Ha, interesting responses so far. Interesting that there aren’t very many comments lol!

    Post # 9
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    2111 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    i watch porn. my FI is gone a lot for work (this time hes been gone for a month) so i kinda do that some times. not that often with him. Though i never did until he introduced it to me.

    Post # 10
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    5 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    @joya_aspera:  Could you link me to any of these studies? I’d be interested in viewing them.

    Post # 11
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    2759 posts
    Sugar bee

    Hmm, the poll only allows to choose one option – didn’t see the choice for watching porn and reading erotica. I read AND write erotica, and I do view porn on a semi-regular basis.

    I’ve never watched it with an SO, but we probably will end up doing so – just haven’t had a chance yet since most of our relationship has been long distance haha.

    Post # 14
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    9611 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2018

    I read erotica regularly (am almost finished the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, again) and watch porn maybe once every couple of months.

    Post # 15
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    3248 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    @joya_aspera:  You’re not alone– I have never watched porn, with my SO or without. I don’t know if he does or not, but if he does, he’s very private about it and it doesn’t affect us in the least. He feels awkward watching people make out in a regular movie, same as me– I can’t imagine how embarrassing it would be for both of us to watch porn. 

    I do, however, occasionally read racy things/romance novels. And I wouldn’t be the least bit surprised if my SO occasionally looks at racy magazines or pictures of some kind, but we both think that sort of thing is private so we don’t feel the need to talk about it. We’re weird and kind of old-fashioned, I guess.

    Post # 16
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    983 posts
    Busy bee

    I don’t like to read the smut – my sex life is far more interesting than books. 

    I look a porn alone and/or with FI a few times a week. He knows I look, I know he looks. We are open about it and don’t get mad.  We have a great sex life, it doesn’t get in the way of our sex life.  Looking at it gives us ideas on what we can incorporate in the bedroom to each other, position ideas, toy ideas…etc.  We don’t like “boring old sex in the missionary position” in bed.  But, that’s just us.

     

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