(Closed) Another invitation issue

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
960 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@MrsBeck:  I’d give the Saturday deadline to her and just let her know you’ll hold it until then.

Don’t fight her on the rudness of not inviting the STD person as really its her issue, not yours and not worth the stress.

In 1 week you wont have to worry about this so try to breathe, drink some herbal tea, and turn your phone off 😉

Post # 4
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983 posts
Busy bee

Just mail them out. If you need to send out another one or two, then do that. I don’t really see what the big deal is with waiting.  Are they paying for the wedding?  I’m sure she had more than enough time to finalize a guest list.  She look too long to shit on that pot. Send ’em out! 

Post # 6
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3265 posts
Sugar bee

As much as it’s her friend.  YOU are the one that is going to look bad by not sending the invitation.

I doubt this friend is going to say that Mrs FI’s mom TOLD you to not invite her.  She will think you are just going to be a jerk.

Give FMIL a deadline, and then send them.  I would send one to everyone who got an STD regardless.

Post # 8
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3265 posts
Sugar bee

@MrsBeck:  i would tell her you are not comfortable uninviting her, without a  reason, and just cause you don’t want to is not a reason.

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