Post # 1
So a couple of weeks ago I wrote a post http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/just-spotted-should-i-test Well I lied to the hive when I did test I got a bfp. I know some people in IRL and wanted to make sure we told our families firts. As I have discussed before I was very worried about TTC because I had 2 prior miscarriages. However, both of those times we were not TTC and they were accidents and I was on bc for both of those. I tried to get myself through trying by assuming the bc had caused the prior miscarriages, however this week at work, I began spotting and it got heavier through out the day. I went to the dr’s and was indeed miscarrying.
I am devistated and I am starting to wonder if being a bio-mom just isn’t meant for me at this point in my life. I am so sad and am blaming myself for this even though I logically know that I did everything I should have been doing. I was taken vitamins, getting extra folic acid, had been off bc for more than 3 months, had dropped 15lbs, etc. DH is being so positive and already talking about when we can try again, and that I meant to be a mom, and I know he has good intentions, but I don’t know if I can go through with this again. The gyno said that this was a “normal” miscarriage and that there is nothing “wrong” with me, but at this point it’s hard to believe. I thought it was important to share the story as I know there are others who have been through the same thing. 🙁
Post # 3
I dont get it, I read the post that you linked to, and you said in there that you weren’t pregnant?
Post # 5
I don’t quite understand either, but I’m so sorry if you have just had a miscarriage. 🙁 ((Hugs))
Post # 6
I think the OP’s post was cut off, it doesn’t look finished..
I’m sorry you had a miscarriage 🙁
Post # 7
I’m so sorry for your loss sweetie. ((hugs))
ETA – I have a close friend who miscarried many times before finally having her son. She and her husband were actually seeing a fertility specialist when they found out they were pregnant with their little one. All they could do was monitor closely and hope and pray for a positive outcome this time around. Their son is now about two months old and my friend is talking about having another. Watching her go through so much was heartbreaking and I know she had many dark days where she thought it wasn’t meant to be. Take a break and just focus on grieving and heal your heart sweetie. Take it one day at a time. (((((((big big hugs)))))))))
Post # 8
@Gingersnap: You are probably right , I was just confused at the post
Post # 9
sorry it got eaten. i finished it
Post # 10
@MsBrewer: “Well I lied to the hive when I did test I got a bfp. I know some people in IRL and wanted to make sure we told our families firts.” (from her post)
@mwitter80: I’m so sorry to hear that this happened! Take the time that you need to heal from this experience and then consider trying again – there’s no need to make that determination right away.
Post # 11
I’m so sorry, mwitter80. I know this is tough to deal with. Take some time for yourself; it’s a big loss, and you need time to mourn and heal. Hugs.
Post # 12
Oh i am so sorry you have to do this, and do this again. It must be devastating. You don’t need to make any decisions about what to do next just yet. thank you for sharing.
(@ddw: the post originally was missing everything after the link so the people who responded responded before the OP went back and fixed her post)
Post # 15
@mwitter80: OH NO!!!! Im so sorry. :(((