Post # 1
Ok I know there are tons of threads on this but here is my situation.
I sent 20 invitations with self addressed RSVP’s to my FI’s family in Sweden which arrived there around October 5. I know that is when the arrived because the one that was sent to my friend in Sweden she messaged me about and have received the reply. Besides her and my FI’s sister we have received nothing. So that is 1 out of 20!!!!
I sent them with arrival dates if they are coming and a very obvious no option as well. We figure most are not coming but I feel so frustrated on spending the money with not at least one more response!
Post # 3
OK 2 questions. 1. when is your RSVP date? Im notorious for sending my RSVP back on that date…. (hey at least I sent it) and 2. how long does it take to return via regular mail?? maybe they are on their way?? I dunno feels like im reaching but maybe… sorry
Post # 4
I do know that RSVP cards are not the norm in Europe as they are in the US. Perhaps they think it’s a courtesy only if you’re attending or something? Sorry–good luck!
Post # 5
Thanks for the uplifiting comments. It is so hard to not go crazy over RSVP’s huh???
Post # 6
That doesn’t mean they aren’t en route! International mail takes SO long!!! I’m sure you’ll be hearing back from others, soon!