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Eek, I am not sure, you could just somehow list her as Mrs. Sarah Smith rather than Matron of Honor Sarah Smith
BFFOH?
Honestly unless you're going super formal, no one will call you on it if you just say Maid. Unless your aunt's emily post and your neighbor is miss manners.
@Melissabegins~ BWAHAHAHAHAHA! That made me almost spit out my soda!
OP~ My MOH is married and she refers to herself as the Maid of Honor =)
@Melissabegns - my mother *thinks* she's Emily Post . . . But I've considered "Best Friend"
@Anchors - that might be the more realistic answer.
I'm having 2 maids of honor, one is actually a matron of honor so I like that they'll have different titles. If neither of you like Matron I would just use Maid... I mean when a bridesmaid's married are you really supposed to call her a bridesmatron? That just sounds silly and I've never heard anyone complain about married women being bridesMAIDS. You could call her a woman of honor, an honor attendant, or lady of honor anything along those lines I think would work!
My MOH is married and I never referred to her as anything other than "maid of honor". Well, that's not true, in Spanish I called her "madrina". But yeah, I don't think you have to call her "matron" just because she's married.
i think Maid of Honor is OK...I mean...how many people are really going to notice anyhow?
yeah, my sister is married and i'm putting "maid of honor" on our programs.
with all due respect, suck it emily post. 
I asked mine what they'd like to be called, and they considered "hag" before deciding on "wench." I might just put that in the program. Matron is terrible, though. That word should be banished in reference to anyone born after 1914.
Lady of Honor? Kind of a call-back to the lady-in-waiting thing, which is where much of this stemmed from, I think.
@krissybee LOL!
@jadeblue hag/matron seem pretty interchangeable.
@aliciareneephotography I kinda like that . . .
What about Honor Attendent? I'm having 3--Matron and 2 maids--and I may use that title instead.
Our MOH and BM are total roits and very good friends. We are referring to them as Best Woman and Man of Honor. :) I'm in total agreement with you on your distaste for Matron!
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My MOH is married. I can't stand "matron" and while she hasn't complained about it at all, she isn't thrilled about it, either. Does anyone know of alternatives for a married MOH?