(Closed) Anxiety about moving house, I feel silly but don't know what to do. :(

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Question… as I didn’t entirely understand the post.

Is this HIS House… or is this his Parent’s Home that you are referring to ?

I ask cause it could make a difference in my reply

 

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Ok, so your guy now has a place of his own… that in of itself should be exciting !!

If you are planning to get married, then you can look forward to decorating this place together and taking it from being JUST A HOUSE… to A HOME.

Lol, as someone who’s had to move in to a space that was someone else’s, I can assure you that starting from scratch is a lot easier / less intimidating.  You guys can plan out together how you want the space to look / function.

When you move into someone else’s space, you kind of have to tip-toe around some stuff because it has been their routine forever (hmmm, why do you put stuff in this cupboard 8 miles from the stove, where it gets used?).  Change is hard for people who have a set routine become accustomed to one way of doing things.

Hope this helps,

 

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