(Closed) Anxious about MOH not saying a word about a shower yet . . . . .

posted 8 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Do I outright voice my desire for my MOH to host a bridal shower/party in my honor to her?
    Yes, but don't order her just say it's something you feel you'd really like : (3 votes)
    30 %
    Maybe, but give it some time (e.g. a couple months since your wedding isn't till the fall!) : (6 votes)
    60 %
    Nicely and inconspicuously voice your wish to another bridesmaid and then to your MOH . . . . : (0 votes)
    NO! Don't even think of it because she could consider you very rude! : (1 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    135 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    well, maybe she hasn’t mentioned anything because she wants to keep it a secret?! Mine was in March about 2.5 months before my wedding – so I would say 2-3 months ahead of the wedding is good (but you can also do it alot closer to the wedding, just depends on schedules). Sorry to hear you aren’t speaking with your family, thats a shame.

    Post # 4
    1684 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    Could she be planning one for you but it’s a surprise? I’d just come out & ask her. I’m going through this right now. Everyone’s trying to keep it a surprise/secret from me but it’s creating problems.

    Many brides know the ins & outs of their shower & it’s not a surprise. My SIL wanted to know & even helped tie bows on the favors. Go ahead and ask if she’s thought about it at all or if anyone’s mentioned it and that you’d like to help if anything’s being done.

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