(Closed) Anxious as all get out!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MissMoscato: Don’t ruin a great date night!  Go without any expectations of a proposal, just go and have a great time.  If he proposes then it’s just that more of an added bonus!  Good luck!

Post # 4
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493 posts
Helper bee

Don’t ruin your night. Have a great time with your SO! I know that it’s hard being a waiting bee and trying to keep sane! As of this week my SO has the ring purchased and it’s being sized. So by the weekend or early next week he will have it in his possession. That’s about all I will know. But I’m soooo anxious to see what he will come up with for the proposal and just to be engaged to my best friend. **sending engagement vibes your way** Hopefully we aren’t waiting much longer. Good Luck!  

Post # 5
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3302 posts
Sugar bee

hope it happens then- good luck!

Post # 6
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72 posts
Worker bee

I really don’t know how so many of you can handle KNOWING that your SO has the ring!  I’ve read so many comments about the ring in the sock drawer just waiting to be worn.  HOW DO YOU HANDLE IT?????  All I’m aware of are a few ring websites that SO visited and I’m losing my mind!!  haha.  You guys have much more willpower than I do.  I think I would just start wearing it one day.  

Hang in there.  It’s bound to happen soon.  If not, then seriously, just start wearing it..   

Post # 7
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1844 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  I understand where you’re coming from! I knew my FI got the diamond in November, and we had a rough plan that we would be engaged by the end of the summer. Every time we would go out, I would be expecting something! I ended up ruining a lot of nice evenings for myself. It’s really hard, but try not to focus on the possibility of a proposal. What I would do is the second I would realize those thoughts were creeping into my mind, I would tell myself to stop thinking them, it’s not going to happen. He did end up surprising me with a proposal–we live in two different states right now, and he surprised me by coming home and setting up a proposal.

  Good luck! I hope he does propose soon :-).

Post # 8
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1566 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I hope it happen at the game…but try not to be too disapointed if it dosen’t.  I can’t imagine how hard it would be to know my SO had the ring!! I know my SO does not have a ring yet and I am anxious all the time!  Good luck…and let us know what happens!

Post # 9
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667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Good luck! It’s hard, but just enjoy the game and the night out. It will happen at the right time and will be great. He’s had it since January, I’d be going crazy right now so hang in there and I hope it comes soon ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 11
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62 posts
Worker bee

I don’t know if my SO looks at rings online. He never really brings up engagements – if I do at all, he gets aggravated and references his answers from the last time that I asked about it (even if it’s been weeks or months since I last brought it up). I don’t know if he has a ring, if he plans to propose anytime in the next year, the next few years, etc. It’s very much an ‘if’ and we’ve been together for 3 years. 3 years and still an ‘if.’

I understand it must be difficult waiting: but you have concrete proof that he’s going to propose. It’s not an ‘if,’ but it’s a matter of ‘when’ now. Even if it doesn’t happen at this ball game, you know it’s going to and probably soon (any vacations or special landmarks coming up?). Try to find some comfort in the fact that you KNOW it’s very, very likely going to happen – so many don’t get that opportunity!

Post # 13
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@KayDubs: That exact thing happened to a guy I know – he just texted one of his friends and was like, yeah, so she found the ring, she’s wearing it.

@MissMoscato: hope it’s soon, but he sounds like a great guy either way ๐Ÿ™‚

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