(Closed) Any Bartender or Waitress Bees out there… Does your SO get jealous??

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Is he jealous because it takes away from your time together or jealous because of the job type/the people you interact with?

Post # 4
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Busy bee

My FI is a songwriter so he works both a) long hours and b) with some pretty gorgeous women.

I have never ever been jealous. Sure, his long hours suck at times, but I’ve never been jealous of the girls he spends hours writing with.

Why? Because I work in an office with guys. It doesn’t mean I’m going to run off with one of them just because we’re in the same room as one another. And the same thing applies to him.

Do you know why it bothers him so much? Why he’s jealous of the guys you serve at the bar? Has he ever been a jealous type before?

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

What is he jealous of? 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@SR:  Have you tried pointing out that seeing all those drunk guys at work just reminds you how lucky you are to be with him and not someone like them?

Working with all guys is something he is going to have get past, though. Doesn’t he have female coworkers? You could always make the point that he should be glad that you work with guys because they’re a good line of defense against any drunks who try to cross the line.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 1993

When we met I worked in a bar. No he was not jealous. That being said when we got engaged I decided to waitress instead. Why? Because in order to make good money you (I) had to flirt with my customers to a certain extent.  I did not want dot do that any more.  I think it issue to you.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

i used to work as a barista and he told me maybe i should say i was single……..so i could get more tips. im like seriously we live in a small town. they will figure it out. lol. kinda weird. some times i wish he was more jealous.

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