Any bees who arent wearing high heels? What are you wearing?

posted 3 years ago in Shoes
Post # 4
1101 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I will be wearing heels for the eremony but I’m changing into these brogues for the reception

Post # 5
7630 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I wore some sparkly flats. They were comfy, cute and about $15 from Payless. Perfect! 

Post # 6
399 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m wearing these. My FI isn’t tall enough for me to do heels either. They’re my something blue. 

Post # 7
291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@futuremrswood25:  I am in the same boat.  I ordered red flats from and wasn’t crazy about that, but haven’t found anything else.  I picked up my dress from my last fitting last week, and guess what…. you can’t even see my shoes AT ALL.  So I’m going with my plain red flats!  There are tons of cute flats out there (apparently unless you’re looking for red) so keep your eyes open, you’ll find something cute.

Post # 8
2878 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I wore flats and have no regrets.  The reasons: 1. FI is only like an inch or two taller than me 2. I never wear heels and hate them 3. our wedding was outside and I didn’t want heels sinking into the ground.  My shoes were super comfy (and cute!).  They matched my dress perfectly (they are a white-ish ivory, not as yellow as they look in this pic… or… they were… they’re brown-ish now 😉 )  Nobody saw my shoes, anyway.

Post # 9
45 posts
  • Wedding: December 2013

@loving_life:  Where did you get those from?

I want to wear flats. FI is only 1inch taller. No one likes the idea but me. I am still looking for my shoes.

Post # 10
860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

My dress is ivory so these will work.  I don’t have to worry about not wearing them again because they are cheap enough. 

I’m wearing flats because my MOH (sister) is 5’3″ and I’m 5’6″ and don’t want to be too much taller than her. She’s wearing heels so I think it will work out.  I also use a cane most of the time and if I wear heels I will NEED one for sure.  I want to go without.  

FI is 6’3″ but I like the contrast in our height.  

Post # 12
951 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - A Beautiful converted Barn

i am 5″ 9 and my H2B is only an inch or so taller than me. i will be wearing flats (well, MINIMAL heel) for the big day – here are my GORGEOUS shoes!!! because of the teeny heel it still sounds like high heels when i walk – but without the pain (and potential falling on my face!)!! win, win!!


all my BMs will be wearing flats too – going for comfort all round! lol

here are their shoes:

Post # 13
494 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

My partner is a giant so I am wearing heels but that being said I may still be able to help 🙂


I am getting my shoes from Shoes of Prey where you can custom design shoes and heel heights and styles! I have two pairs from them and two currently being made and I LOVE them! Super helpful and if you don’t like the shoes you can return them. 

Worth a look! 🙂 x

Post # 15
929 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I too am in the same position.. so I am wearing a kitten heel.


Post # 16
355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I wore these

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