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    Kare7213    May 22, 2010   Dewitt, MI

      I dont cry infront of a large group people. I dont cry at funerals, weddings or when a baby is born. No matter whos dead, whos getting married, and who has a baby. I. dont. cry. But that doesnt mean I dont cry at all. Forrest gump....gets me every single fricken time.

      Now during my ceremony I dont think I will be crying but I cant say the same about my FI. He not a "crying" type of guy but hes not such a hard ass about his emotions like I am. But if he crys. You might see a glissen on my face. Which will totally embarresse me. Its a character flaw girls. Lets not hate on the less emotional.

     Anywho, any of you ladies have a guy you know will cry?? Or you know totally wont??? How will you react???

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    I think that FI will tear up... the then tell me afterward that he had something in his eye. lol

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    I have no idea! I'm definitely NOT a crier, but I could see myself crying a little bit at the wedding. I am almost positive he will cry. :)

     
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    Miss Olive    February 20, 2011   Albany, NY

    I am pretty sure my FI will cry.  And that, of course, will make me cry.  I can't wait to stand with him at the altar.

     
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    littlemissmoo    July 18, 2010   London, UK

    Yes. FH will cry. He'll try to be all manly about it and then I'll do something to make him laugh (and make me look like a twit) and it'll all be good again. At least, that's what I'd like to think I'll do ;)

     
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    lampshade127    March 27   Houston

    My husband DEFINITELY teared up. Usually I am the one that cries but I held it together. There were supposedly a lot of bets lost because everyone thought I would completely loose it.

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    I think that he will when he sees me cry. Then that, in turn, will make me cry even harder.

     
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    mishelleez    November 5, 2010   DW- Bahamas

    My FI will deff not cry! He is the most unemotinal person, unless hes mad. I asked him if he wanted to write his vows and i got the quickest responce ive eva gotten from him a BIG FAT NOOO

     
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    KIKI82    October 30, 2010   SoCal

    I think FI will cry or at least really tear up. I 'm such a baby, I know I'll probably cry which might get him going

     
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    JennyChicago    August 7, 2010  

    I will cry for sure! I always wished FI would cry when he saw me coming down the aisle but now I kinda hope he doesn't LOL. When he crys he does this quivering lip thing that he can't help and he just looks so silly and dramatic. hahaha i know I am mean

    Any ladies think their groom will cry during the ceremony??? :  wedding Sadbabythumbnail.jpg

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    I don't think he will... the only time I have EVER seen him cry is when he thought his dog was going to be put down. He doesn't cry over things that aren't sad. To my knowledge the only other time he's cried was when his grandpa passed.

    I, on the other hand, will be a total tear filled mess. I am dreading it!

     
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    Miss Cheeky    May 8, 2010   South Jersey

    I think my FI will cry..he is very sentimental and will lose it if I start crying (which I definitely will!)

     
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    clane616    May 7, 2011   Chicago; wedding in Florida

    I know we will both cry.  Some of the recaps make me get a little lump in my throat and orginarily I'm not the crying type.  My fiance cries easier than I do and he said he didn't want to do vows we wrote ourselves so he has a better chance of getting through them without crying!  Oh, and we both cried the first time we listened to our wedding song together (it's something kind of old school that he found and played for me and it was just "it").

     
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    hilsy85    September 2010  

    I don't think he will, but I would love it if he teared up! He would definitely be a little embarrassed though, I think.

     
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    missjyc    September 18, 2010   macomb, michigan

    FI will def cry. he's not a big crier, i've only seen him really cry twice. once when we were going through a rough patch... and that was just a few tears. and for the first time i saw him bawl when we put his dog pepper (the one that he grew up with) down t his past halloween.

    however, he is def sentimental and big softie inside. he's kind of already admitted how he doesn't want to say his own vows cuz he doesn't think he'll make it through the entire thign! :P

     
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    MissChirpie    August 2010   Minnesota

    I don't think he will. I've been with him nearly 5 years and I think I've only seen one or two tears. I probably will though.

     
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    Miss Chocolate    July 24, 2010   Texas... Married in California

    My FH can be emotional at times, so I think that he'll cry. Which if he cries, then I know I'll start crying! Looking forward to it! Him crying, not me ;]

     
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    MrsH1010       Chicago, IL

    I think mine might get a little misty, but I dont think full on croc tears are his style

     
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    I'm usually the more emotional one of out the two of us and surprisingly he is the one that got teary eyed.  He was SO sure I was going to be crying but booyah!  I did feel "Aww" right when we were walking towards the aisle but then I just smiled and kept beaming through the entire ceremony.  He wasn't a blubbering mess but his eyes welled up and he had a tear going down his cheek.

     
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    BudsBride    September 25, 2010   Wisconsin

    My FI is a very sensitive and emotional guy. When he is at church he envisions me walking down the aisle... very sweet but I know if I see him cry I'm going to be a hot mess!

     
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    skibobrown    July 31, 2010   CA (wedding in Bar Harbor, ME)

    I have no idea... I don't even know if I will cry.  I think probably not, but you never know.  It's definitely goin to be an emotional day.  I *am* worried that if he does cry, then I will start crying too.  The second that FI sheds a tear, then I totally lose it and start bawling, no matter what.  I totally think it will be adorable if he cries though.  I was at a friend's wedding where the groom totally got all teary eyed, and it was SO cute. 

     
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    alivoo01    September 18, 2010   Dallas, TX

    I think my FI might get a little teary eyed at our wedding. He got teary eyed when he proposed to me and I didn't even blink. haha! I might at our ceremony, but there's a chance I probably won't.

     
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    msmonicka    June 19, 2010   Milwaukee, Wisconsin

    I'm gonna cry and so will he. He text me the other day as he was finishing his vows and told me he was tearing up writing them so I'm pretty confident that he will shed some tears.

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    My FI cried during the proposal, so there's a pretty good chance he'll cry during the ceremony :-) (I know i'll be crying!!)

     
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    Tonya2010    September 11, 2010  

    When my FI tells me that he doesn't cry, I kindly remind him of the first time he watched the movie the Notebook. He cried like a baby!! ;-) He says that he knows that he will not cry during the ceremony. I am just not so sure! I kind of hope that he doesn't, because then I will cry more!

     
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    krissybee    October 15, 2011   :: chicago IL ::

    i've never seen my FI cry in the 11 years i've been with him, but he'll "scratch" and "rub" his eyes and thats when i know he is hiding a tear or 2! (only happens if something is extremely sad or emotional..not movies and such)

    i have a feeling maybe his eye will "itch" when i walk down the aisle and maybe vows.. other than that, i think he'll be ok. :)

    different story with me though, i'm super emotional and wear my heart on my sleeve! if i cry, i cry!

     
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    alishadhs4    June 5, 2010   Colorado Springs, CO

    I think mine will, but better yet, I hope he does! I would love to see those tears of joy in his eyes.

     
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    AnnieAAA    October 25, 2009   Dallas, TX

    My husband DID cry at the wedding!

    In fact, he started downright sobbing, and making choking sounds trying to hold back! I was totally composed, but when he started breaking down, I lost it and it was a big sobfest.

    My husband was completely composed until we got to our vows, which we wrote to start with "you are my best friend" and he said, if that line wasn't in there, he doesn't think he would of starting crying, lol!  

    After the ceremony, my friends all told me that once my husband started crying they all lost it, he had all my girlfriends & BMs sobbing!

     

     
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    CCSR    November 27, 2010   Arlington, VA / Wedding in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil

    I don't think FI will cry, but he'll definitely tear up.  He better!

     
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    trugem    January 2011  

    I don't like to cry in public, but I think I may cry on my wedding day. I can't believe that I cried when we got engaged. FH may cry, but I wouldn't be surprised either way.

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I REALLY hope so!  I just think it would be so cute, it would make me laugh.  And, I really really really don't want to cry.  !!  Not at all!  I think if he does, I won't.  I think I would laugh and it would make me hug him- it is so cute when he cries because he is so sincere.  It is the sweetest thing.

     
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    Vegan    July 6, 2013   maryland

    I don't think my SO will cry.  I've never seen him cry the almost three years we'll be dating.  Myself on the other hand I'll be crying like a baby!  In other words something like this:

    Any ladies think their groom will cry during the ceremony??? :  wedding Crying Baby

     
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    OnBecomingMrsHall    October 9, 2010   Live in DC, but getting married in Philadelphia

    For sure... Our goal is to have everyone shed a tear!

     
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    starr_bee    June 20, 2010  

    I'm 99% sure he'll cry, but I'm hoping against it as then I'll probably cry and I'm not a pretty cryer and I'm scared of ruining my make-up.  A little choking up or tear here or there would be ok...but I'm thinking he's going to be stunned!  Eeeek.

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I told my FI that he has to cry.  So, if he knows what's good for him, he'll shed a tear or two :)

    He almost cried at his brother's wedding during the vows so that's hopeful.

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    I had thought I would be the crier, but I didn't! But my husband's eyes were misty the entire ceremony. No actual tears, but he was very close to it. Luckily, that didn't make me start crying. It's funny because I never thought he would cry and was certain I would.

     
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    Lees4308    March 13, 2010   Panama City Beach, FL.

    I NEVER thought that my husband would! He told me he was going to cry & I told him there is NO way!! But sure enough he did...and then I cried like a baby when I got to the end of the aisle with him!!

    Any ladies think their groom will cry during the ceremony??? :  wedding .jpg

     
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    helenberrycrunch    January 1, 1992  

    I secretly want him to at least glisten.

     
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    thisismeAXiD    April 2013   NE Wisconsin

    I prbly won't cry. Mr.TKE might cry. I've seen him get mad enough to cry, but never have I actually seen him cry.

     
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    girlbrat89    June 20, 2010   Minnesota

    My guy told me he would cry.. If he does I know I will..Can anyone say water proof make-up?

     

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