(Closed) Any LDR bees regret moving?

posted 5 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 3
1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It gets better once you have a life where you are. It’s still hard around holidays, and sometimes you just miss your friends and your old favorite places and things to do. But there’s less of that as time goes on.  Are there any things you can get involved with on your own?

Post # 4
2385 posts
Buzzing bee

Homesickness is hard, and any kind of move requires a fair amount of adjusting. It’ll get better!

Post # 5
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Sigh .. i feel your pain … I had four malls in 40 min of me…. target and walmart right down the street … now Target is 40 min away as is the closest mall.

have you tried to do a meetup?   Or how about a job?  Then you could make some of your own friends.  I made the mistake of thinking his mom was my mom and his brother’s wife were friends…. yeah I’m definitely looking for my own group. 

Post # 6
27 posts
  • Wedding: May 2013

I moved to my SO after almost two years apart. I didn’t really leave a bunch of people behind because I was in grad school so everyone who I was close to moved from that area anyway. When I first moved with him, I felt kinda lonely since he had friends here and I didn’t. The best thing I have been able to do is meet up with friends who I miss on weekends or traveling to see them where they live now.  I wouldn’t trade living with my SO for anything but it does get lonely. 

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