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    MsInterpret    March 19, 2011   lesbian couple, married in Iowa, live in san antonio TX

    I can't stop!  And what's funny is now that the wedding is over there are MORE out there, or so it seems, that appeal to me.  Or I am less picky now with what I like since I won't be wearing anything for real... but I am just still obsessed with wedding dresses and it's crazy.  I keep fantasizing about buying another (and another and another) just to take pictures in them! LOL!

    Anyone else?

     
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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Ha...At least it's only been a few weeks for you. I'm at 11 months out and still the president of "get a life and stop looking at wedding dresses" club.

    I'm going to try going cold turkey on our first anniversary. That may mean no more Weddingbee for me.

     
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    MsInterpret    March 19, 2011   lesbian couple, married in Iowa, live in san antonio TX

    Oh, I manage to do it with or without Weddingbee!  Do you find yourself thinking up excuses as to why you NEED another dress, like planning a 1 year vow renewal? ;-D

     

     
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    Georgia Bee    October 9, 2010   Atlanta

    Me!!   I can't think of why I need another dress, but of other people I know who should get married so I can go shopping with them.

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    Hmm, I don't really actively look, but I love looking at bees who post their dresses!

     
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    maureen9004    August 2008  

    I've been married for close to three years and I still look. My sister is getting married so I try to get her to try on everything I would looove to wear. She has an amazing dress though. I'm jealous of all the online resources brides have today. J crew had a 4-5 dress wedding line when I was getting married and there were a lot less blogs!

     
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    FutureMrsMoore    May 6, 2012  

    I am like this with e-rings long after getting engaged. I am even going to get another one after we get married (he knows I love them). I have had to refrain before the wedding coz I think it will be weir

    d to get a new ering before we are even married,

     

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    @meliss: NOOOOOOO, you can't leave until you see my recaps, you are one of the last of the ones that has been here my whole time (yes I said that in a big whiny voice) PPLLEEAASSEE

     

    I always tell my FH he will come home from work one night after the wedding and I will be vacuuming in my wedding dress, why should I only wear it once - right.

     
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    shanibee    August 6, 2011  

    @meliss: Awe Meliss. I would miss reading your feedback. Some bees you just need around because we think alike. :)

     
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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    @tksjewelry: Hahaha, gosh I feel so old now! I'm like the 20-something year old guy that still hasn't graduated high school, walks the halls smoking, has a beard and looks like everyone's dad. But I promise I will come back to look at your recaps!

    @MsInterpret: I'm almost hoping my brother will get married soon so I can wear a fancy long dress again. I've never been into fashion before but now I can't get enough of those pretty dresses.

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    I still definitely look.  I've got lots of ladies around me planning weddings, and totally use it as an excuse.  It seems like exactly what I wanted is soooo much easier to find this year.  I swear when I was shopping I found the ONE ruffly dress out there, and now they're everywhere!

     
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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    @shanibee: You guys are going to make me fall of the wagon before I even got on it, LOL. I know whatever dress you end up wearing will be stunning and will make me green with envy :P  Did you try on that gorgeous Eve of Milady yet?

    @SapphireSun: It's the same for me! I went nuts and bought three dresses and still couldn't find the dropped waist lace ballgown I envisioned. For 2012 Pronovias decided to make a dozen of them.

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    @meliss:  I know right, moving the wedding back a year made me feel like the old lady of the bunch, wait, I am the old lady of the bunch.  On a good note, I got carded today - not bad for 40!

     
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    Melini    April 2, 2011   Northern CA

    @tksjewelry:  Me too (on the carding).  It's flattering as long as they sell me the booze after I flash the crows feet.

    I'm only 1 week away from my wedding and basquing in the glow, but I'm enjoying the feeling of looking at other dresses and still feeling like my dress is/was "the dress".  Although I did sort of panic when I saw that a new Oscar de la Renta collection was out.

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    @Melini: I LOVE Oscar, may be a residual thing from the 80s but he is so damn classic.

     
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    pengoala    September 4, 2011  

    I still look at everyone's dresses on WB, but I have to say i've been pretty good about dresses otherwise!

     
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    Evie19    January 21, 2012  

    I was looking at other dresses and almost had a mini-crisis because I found another I truly loved...so now I'm not allowed. :)

    BUT I love the dress threads, so I still enjoy checking out dresses the bees are wearing.

     
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    Wonderstruck    September 18, 2011   Detroit, MI

    I'm not married yet, but I don't get this...I mean. you're already married. It's not like you have another occassion to wear a wedding dress to.

     
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    Melini    April 2, 2011   Northern CA

    @Wonderstruck:  Nope.  You don't get it.  I browse the racks at Niemann-Marcus and look at the red carpet styles too even though I'm not on the list for any galas requiring a designer evening gown.  It's not about necessity.

     
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    MsInterpret    March 19, 2011   lesbian couple, married in Iowa, live in san antonio TX

    I think it's about wearing something so fancy and formal.  I hadn't worn a "formal" since prom and that was a LONG long time ago! ;)  I have always loved fashion and lace and ultra feminine stuff though.  I just never have time to dress the way I'd like, with 3 kids and school full time and work, I am lucky to have something CLEAN on, much less be "well dressed" on any regular basis.  So, having the entire coordinated outfit was awesome for me.  And now, my love of lace is even more intensified and I want to wear lace dresses EVERY DAY! LOL

    I've just been trying to think of how to get myself involved in some sort of lifestyle that would create the need for frequent "fancy dresses". ;)  I recently bought a floor length black satin form fitting dress with a lace inset at the back, and another at the back of the skirt, and it has a small train.  GORGEOUS.  It was $1.75! And I have no idea what the hell I will do with it, but I bought it anyway!

    My Grandmother, who recently passed, was married to a Lt. Col in the Air Force who worked at the Pentagon and she went to formal affairs on a regular basis and had an entire wardrobe of formal wear, which is where I think I first fell in love with fancy dresses, as a kid, going through her closet.  Then there was my love of all things "old fashioned" and historical and I remember being little and wishing I'd been born in a time where women wore long dresses and hats and gloves every day. :)

     

     
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    Melini    April 2, 2011   Northern CA

    @MsInterpret:  I know exactly what you're saying.  I love nice clothes, but haven't taken the time to even put a skirt on for years before the wedding.  On our honeymoon, we went out to nice dinners three times, and I wore the cocktail dress that I got for the rehearsal dinner.  It was so fun that I decided that I'm going to get one killer dress a year and make a dinner date (or symphony or whatever) and where the dress even if I'm the most dressed up person in the room when we do it.

     
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    NotYourTypicalBride    December 3, 2010   South Florida/Semi-destination wedding in Key Largo

    Ummmm.... guilty on all counts. Of course, it's easy to fantasize after the fact, since budget and size/shape become non-issues!Cool

     
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    MsInterpret    March 19, 2011   lesbian couple, married in Iowa, live in san antonio TX

    @Melini:  Ooh! The symphony!  Good excuse, thanks for reminding me, because as students we get super cheap discount tickets! :) We went last year as part of a school extra credit thing for a humanities class, and I had to buy something to wear to go... I think I'll start paying more attention to school events that require formal wear too.  I know our school's Gay & Lesbian association holds some sort of formal each year, but I always forget about it.  :)   And if we have our honeymooon in New Orleans I will definitely plan on at least a couple fancy dinners for that reason!

    My Grandma's memorial service was shortly after our wedding. :(  I dressed up and I was pretty much the only one who did.  It was odd and I got funny looks from my family (mom, aunt, cousins), but whatever.  I wore a black linen dress, with a very 40's feel, a little black vintage hat with black veiling, and low heeled black suede mary janes, and carried a black patent box purse.  So everyone looked at me like I was nuts but dammit, my Grandmother would have LOVED what I wore, she would have deemed it fashionable but respectufl and appropriate and she is the one I credit for giving me an interest in fashion in the first place.  It sure as hell wasn't my mom who seemed to live in cutoff jean shorts and bikini tops for my entire childhood! ;)

     

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    After the wedding, the line I bought my dress from came out with a bunch of new dresses that I thought were just so gorgeous that I was sad I couldn't have worn them for mine. :) But I stopped looking soon after that.

     
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    starrysim    November 16, 2011   Toronto, Canada

    My wedding is later this year, and I ordered my dress a few weeks ago, but I still love to look.  I'm happy to say that I don't have dress regret, and looking is just too much fun!  However, I used to look and save pictures that I liked on my computer years ago, way before I was engaged... And I looked at bridal magazines before I ever had a boyfriend.  I don't think looking at wedding dresses has anything to do with getting married soon - at least not to me :) 

     
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    Georgia Bee    October 9, 2010   Atlanta

    @tksjewelry:LOL--vacuuming in your wedding dress.  It wouldn't shock DH that I was in my wedding dress, just that I was vacuuming.

    @SapphireSun: @meliss:I hear you--I wanted a dress with sleeves which was nowhere to be found.  Now there are some beautiful ones!  Sometimes I think about going to try them on, just to see if that was something I would have picked anyway.

     

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