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ME! Wedding planning is very distracting. I'm supposed to graduate in August...
I use a time management ap for Mac called Pomodoro and every 20 mintues, it gives me a 5 minute break. I'm down to 32 seconds right now!
me too.... I have my Ph.D. proposal on thursday, yet I'm on weddingbee! ahh!
i'm trying to graduate sometime next year, and its so hard to work on my research when i have the weddingbee to distract me!
okay, thanks for the reminder of what i should be doing, back to writing....
@macshap: I'm glad there are a few of us at least. I have a meeting with my advisor tomorrow. It's not going to go well. I'm also on the academic job market right now. Too much to do!
Good luck with your proposal.
thanks!
I'm always afraid meetings with my advisor will not go well, but usually they turn out a little better than expected. hope this is the case for you tomorrow! best wishes with the job market. what is your field?
@macshap: Classics. You?
Yup. I'm finishing what's become a very difficult mentoring situation. And majorly unmotivated at the moment. :(
@atalante: Sorry to hear that; it's so ahrd to explain to outsiders how important that relationship is with your mentor. He or she is a part of your life in a very serious way and that relationship becomes emotionally charged. I hope things turn around for you soon! I totally sympathize on the motivation thing. I can't stay motivated and I have a great mentor.
@brenda.m.fields: Thanks for the good thoughts. :) I just need to get out with a degree, there is nothing that could salvage the situation. But it'll be OK. The timed work intervals mentioned in the PP should do the trick.
@macshap: fields other than my own always sound so scary!
Hey smart ladies! Hang in there! I am happy to say that I just finished mine and successfully defended on Nov. 30th. The winter graduation ceremony is this Friday. It feels so great to be done... but now I'm searching for a job which is almost just as challenging. :-( My field is Biology and I'm debating on whether or not to do a post-doc. But anyway, good luck to all of you!! What a great accomplisment!
@OoOTifsterOoO: Congratulations! My field is SO competitive right now. I'm overwhelmed by negotiating the job market. I might have to go the HS teacher route until the job market opens up again. We've got tons of new PhDs out there with amazing CVs and no interviews, let alone jobs! Good luck to you.
@brenda.m.fields: Thank you so much! I'm also considering the HS route. I really enjoyed teaching as a TA (mandatory for PhD students).... but in PA I'd still have to take a years worth of HS certification classes (pedagogy and what not) in order to teach. I just don't know what to do....
Good luck to you as well. :)
@OoOTifsterOoO: That sucks. We can get temporary certification here based on college coursework and a subject-area exam and then we have like 3 years (I think) to get 5 classes or so of coursework in education so we can get full certification.
I work full time, am moving in with BF and am dissertating. FML. But no, its not too bad, I just need to stop procrastinating :-).
Hey! Like @OoOTifsterOoO: , I finished recently (in December). I just started a post-doc doing something pretty different (same discipline, different technique) and I get the feeling it's gonna be like grad school all over again. Fortunately, I had a great grad school experience! I just wanted to chime in and say 'hang in there!' The occasional distraction keeps us sane, and we need to be sane in order to be productive, right?
So, since I've got a captive audience of grad students and new PhDs, I've got a question. Realistically, how many hours were you able to put in writing on a single day when you are working each day? I mean, I've had days where I've worked from sun-up to sun-down and beyond, but that's not sustainable, and i'm trying to break this cycle of no work for long stretches and then hell for a few days.
I'm trying to finish start my PhD proposal. I want to defend it in the next two months because I'm supposed to be out in the field again this summer so I can actually start analysis and writing this coming fall. Lazy wedding planning is way more entertaining...
@brenda.m.fields: Because I work full time I barely get a couple hours in the evening, but I try to work a good 8 hours per day on the weekends to try to crank it out. Luckily for my discipline the dissertation is much more like a manuscript than the crazy 200 page paper so its more managable...
I'd say most days I wrote/edited for ~2 solid hours. I had one week where I wrote for ~6 hours/day (not straight, cummulative) and banged out 2.5 chapters in 7 days (I had 5 chapters+references). I had a fair amount of stuff written already (~80 pages), so some days I spent 2-3 hours formatting text, figures and legends. Once I started writing it took me a little over 2 months to finish the whole thing (250+ pages), and I was still doing experiments 'til the very end, so I often couldn't devote more than 3 hours at a time. I know every discipline is different, but I hope that gives you an idea.
I wanted to make sure I knew how things were going to flow before I started writing. Coming up with outlines for each chapter was time-consuming, but once these were done, the writing came naturally. Remember- No one knows your dissertation work better than yourself. Probably not even your adviser!
Hi Ladies!!!!
Another PhD in the house! I am in my last stage planning to defend this summer. In my field we have to do three manuscripts plus a common intro, lit review and discussion. I am currently writing the 2nd manuscript while finishing the third project. I am super stressed with my timeline. Adding the job search is just another stressfull layer!!!
I have my first on-campus interview for a position in 2 weeks.... I am soooo nervous!!!!!
Someone tell me the journey is not as much of a prolonged agony as I hear?
I have completed a year of my masters, my advisor convinced me to switch the program into a PhD.. ahhh! Will be starting up officially this spring.
@MissButterTart: It's been prolonged agony for me, but I LOVE the teaching I get to do, and I do think it's been worth it.
Yes. I hate it. I do like teaching, though. Maybe I'll find some way to turn that into gainful employment. My field is super competitive right now, though. Ugh.
What a relief to hear that there's other people out there who know what I'm going through. I'm in a doctoral program for my ScD (Doctor of Science). I'm in the pilot phase of my research right now in addition to working. It's hectic.
This topic makes me so happy too! I am not yet at the dissertation stage (will be next year) but just finished my first qualifying exam and am beginning the prep for my second exam in the Doctor of Public Health program (concentrating in Epidemiology) at CUNY. I have 4 more classes in the didactic portion of my degree. My dissertation should take me a year because "we have our whole careers to do something innovative in the way of primary data collection", so they want us to focus on using existing data but complex methodology to analyze it. I have never felt my brain turn to mush like I did after finishing my first qualifying exam a couple weeks ago - but I was a good girl and only went on wedding bee twice during the 2 weeks I had to complete the exam :) (It was a 2 week take home exam that covered 3 separate content areas, since my degree is a professional (Dr.P.H.) degree and not a pure Ph.D..
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Okay, post-college but I think this is the right board? I am in the middle of dissertation hell right now and would love to chat with fellow dissertating bees. Aiming to get the full draft done by the end of the month and need to stay motivated! Anyone else?
ETA: I know in England, third year papers are "dissertations" but what I mean is actually Ph.D. dissertations... :-)