Any "quiet/shy" bees out there?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
781 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@sparky263:  me me me! 🙂 I lurk a LOT. I don’t post too too often, I did mostly before I was married. Now I have baby fever to the max but we won’t be TTC for another year or two so…. yeah lol. 🙂

Post # 5
781 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@sparky263:  I wish I would have found this site before I was engaged actually! I would have gotten a lot more information about wedding related things as well as ring ideas. 😉

Post # 6
467 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Totally shy, mostly because I don’t have anything constructive to say and a lot of people on here put things more eloquently than I do. I just joined WB a few days ago, but I’ve been stalking lurking the boards for a very, very long time.

Post # 7
11180 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@sparky263:  This is a fantastic idea for a thread! I’m so glad you posted this, because it’s very nice to see some of the bees who aren’t regular posters taking time to comment on it. 🙂 

Post # 8
2968 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

i lurked for a long time before i posted. i think i go thru phases where i post often and then there are times when i’m more quiet. sometimes (a lot of times actually) i’ll have an entire post typed out and then end up deleting it, haha.

Post # 9
196 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I hate talking to people. I always make my SO order at restaurants or drive thrus or talk to other people for me. I can be assertive at work – I feel like I have to and I know what I’m talking about. 

I just dont care to draw attention to myself I think! I like who I am and dont care what others think so why go out of my way to talk about nothing important? 

Post # 10
19 posts
  • Wedding: July 2014

@sparky263:  totally shy on here, so totally not alone on this.

I have been lurking around for a year, made this profile about six months or so, and hardly ever post for the fear of looking like an idiot.

I will try to reply to a post, have it all written out, it looks great, and then delete it all going “Nope! Nope! I can’t do it!! AHHHH!!”

Post # 11
76 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I lurked for a while before I finally made an account because I had a burning question lol. I still lurk daily and really only post when I have a question or feel like replying to something that I know won’t lead to any debates, arguments, attacks, etc. lol It takes enough out of me just to reply to something, so the last thing I want/need is someone trying to argue with me over the internet.

Post # 13
216 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@sparky263:  I lurk way more than I post.  I’m getting better though 🙂

Post # 14
924 posts
Busy bee

@FutureMrsTexasT:  “I will try to reply to a post, have it all written out, it looks great, and then delete it all going “Nope! Nope! I can’t do it!! AHHHH!!””

I’ve gradually become more confident at posting over the past year or so, but I still do this fairly frequently!  In real life, I’m very shy and quiet.

Post # 15
38 posts
  • Wedding: January 2015

@habibti:  omg I get my FI to order for me too when we’re out at the restaurants. Ugh I just don’t have much to say i guess. But I’m only shy to people I don’t know that well.

Post # 16
222 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I’m pretty shy.  I mostly read and don’t post a lot.

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