- 7 years ago
- Wedding: February 2011
Even though my wedding was the happiest day of my life, I do wish a few things went differently. First, everyone kept trying to sabotage our first look. I understand I live in a small town (with small thinking :/) but they kept trying to postpone what I wanted so badly! It made me angry on the day of, particularly when I was left alone in the room for twenty-so minutes (I almost cried at that point). Second, an uninvited person showed up, too late to kick them out. So they were there throughout the ceremony, until my husband promptly sent friends to send her away right afterwards. She knew I never wanted to see her face again (she hurt me very deeply and tried to ruin husband and I’s relationship), and that she was very much not invited. Luckily I didn’t see her personally, but husband told me later. It still makes me angry that she had the nerve to do something like this. Third, I didn’t get as much ‘happy time’ with my husband as I wanted. As soon as we were at the reception, it was a routine, so we didn’t spend a lot of time intimately. I also didn’t get the sweetheart table I wanted, and a lot of little things I wanted didn’t happen because my family kind of forced me into doing everything traditionally.
Even though this stuff bothered me though, it was a beautiful day and I couldn’t stop smiling from the moment I saw my husband to be onwards.
I think at our vow renewal in a few years I’ll let out my crazy side though, and do EVERYTHING I wanted 🙂
Do you have any regrets?