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Anybody out there without a middle name???

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    NorCalBride    09/21/2008   East Bay

    I was looking at invitations and noticed that many if not all examples have (if Bride's Parents' are hosting)

    Mr. and Mrs. Bride's Parents

    request the honour of your presence

    at the marriage of thier daughter

    Bride's First name, middle name

    to

    Mr. Groom

    Here's the thing: 

     I don't have a middle name! 

    On the Papyrus website you get to make a mock invite using the samples they have online. Well when I added our info it looked really funny because I didn't have a middle name. Any of you ladies having the same issues?  What did you do differently? Since my parents  are contributing I wanted to include thier names.

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    tofutti      

    I don't have a middle name either... but I think it looks fine.  You can just put both yours and his names without middle names, unless he has an objection to this (ie familial significance or history).  That way if you both have 2 names, then it's more balanced. 

    Sorry can't be more helpful...

     
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    missalice    May 3, 2008  

    i haven't got a middle name either!  and my full name is all of 7 letters while my fiance's has more than 20!  it looks funny since we've got it all spelled out on one line and i occupy less than 1/3 of it :(

     
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    bearbride      

    Hmm well if you don't have a middle name, why don't you just use your last name?  My parents actually have a different (slightly) last name than my sisters and me.

     
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    Candi1024    05/24/2008   Hunlock Creek, PA

    I have a middle name but didn't use it on my invitation.  Neither did FI

     
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    debyeb27    10/19/08  

    I don't have a middle name and my FI does. We didn't use his on our invites we just used our first and last names! Hope that helps!

     
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    Janna19    June 7, 2008   New York

    I don't have one either and my FI's middle name is his dad's name so we couldn't leave it off the invite.  At first our plan was to have our last names too so it wouldn't look so unbalanced.  But then when I saw it, I thought it was silly:

    Mr. & Mrs. John Smith request blah blah their daugter

    Jane Smith

    to

    Jonathan Andrew Goldman

    Son of Mary and Andrew Goldman.

    So we killed the last names and now it just looks really uneven.  The only other thing I could think of was to make up a new middle name, but too many people are aware of my life long woe of no middle name (sexism since my brother got one - I didn't since one day I would get married and take my maiden as my middle!!)

     
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    MissPearls    June 14, 2008   New York City

    I don't have one, either, so we settled on:

    Together with their parents

    Jane Doe and John Michael Smith

    request the pleasure of your company...

     

     It looked a little more balanced, but my parents weren't really hosting (and both families were contributing some), so it was ok not to use their names.

     
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    NorCalBride    09/21/2008   East Bay

    Thanks for the tips guys! Note to self: when I have kids I'm giving them middle names... maybe two! LoLAnybody out there without a middle name??? :  wedding Icon Biggrin  My name is all of eight letters and is so BLAH!

     

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